I must have been sleeping
I must have been drinking
I haven't been dreaming about you for years
There was a sharp turn and a sunburn
I was too cool for high school that year
That year

It must have have been new years
No one invited you
You took things too far
But I missed you and your antics
You were lonesome and blue eyed
And so special to us

You should have taken a long break
Instead of a long drop from a high place
Ten years I never spoke your name
Now it feels good to say it
Your my friend again

Said, he forgave you, I said, I hated you
He was the bigger man, I was sixteen
All the innocence it took for
You to finally made the year book that year
That year

You could have taken some time away
Instead of a long drop, instead of a leap of faith
Ten years I never spoke your name
Now it feels good to say that
Your my friend again
Your my friend again

I was angry, I was a Baptist
I was a daughter, I was wrong


Lyrics submitted by tracy_rathbun, edited by frankie2j9

That Year Lyrics as written by Phillip John Hanseroth Brandi M. Carlile

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    I saw her perform this song back in October and when she played this everyone was silent. She mentioned before she played it that when she was 16, a friend of hers from high school killed himself and she hated him for it. Now she finally forgives him for it after all of this time and she can finally say that they are friends again.

    It is heartbreaking, for sure. I can't wait for this to be on a record.

    insult_to_injuryon January 02, 2008   Link

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