Mail order brides, turtlenecks, and trophy wives,
Had the ways and means to breach,
The borders of easy street,

And to blend right in,
We all surrounded them in a white picket fence,
Now both ends meet,

Sufficed to say there's a time and a place,
So I wait,
For the tug-of-war and who you'll pull for,
While between you and me from point A to point be is a fine line,
That burns at both our good ends,

Two peas in a pod, a battle axe, and a bastard child,
Took one step more and went straight to the source,
And to blend right in,
They opened fire with their rain checks spent to make ends meet,

Sufficed to say there's a time and a place,
So I wait,
For the tug-of-war and who you'll pull for,
While between you and me from point A to point be is a fine line,
That burns at both our good ends,

Go on, paint the whole town red,
I'd rather follow who cleans up the mess,
And so I wait,

Sufficed to say there's a time and a place,
So I wait,
For the tug-of-war and who you'll pull for,
While between you and me from point A to point be is a fine line,
That burns at both our good ends.


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The Wife, The Kids, And the White Picket Fence Lyrics as written by Brett Stowers Andrew Sudderth

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    My Interpretation

    My simple guess is that the song is about the dark truth of the "American Dream" and/or Suburbia. The house, family and white picket fence.

    In the end, the husband turns into a lonely sex addict who would stoop to the point of mail-order brides, despite their clean upstanding exterior (turtlenecks). Wives are simply objects or trophies to the husband and are seen as such in the neighborhood. The children are spoiled, crazy and violent bastards who oftentimes struggle to "blend in" at school (shootings at small suburban schools anyone?). Looking to the source (the messed up family) as to why the kids turn out the way they do.

    Might not cover all of the lyrics I guess, but that's my thoughts on the song.

    Dreakonon January 19, 2010   Link

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