I'm only pretty sure that I can't take anymore
Before you take a swing
I wonder what are we fighting for?
When I say out loud
I want to get out of this
I wonder is there anything?
I'm going to miss
I wonder how it's gonna be?
When you don't know me
How's it gonna be?
When you're sure I'm not there
How's it gonna be?
When there's no one there to talk to
Between you and me
'Cause I don't care

How's it gonna be?
How's it gonna be?

Where we used to laugh
There's a shouting match
Sharp as a thumbnail scratch
A silence I can't ignore
Like the hammock by the
Doorway we spent time in, swings empty
I don't see lightning like last fall
When it was always about to hit me
I wonder how's it gonna be?
When it goes down
How's it gonna be?
When you're not around
How's it gonna be?
When you found out there was nothing
Between you and me
'Cause I don't care

How's it gonna be?

And how's it gonna be?
When you don't know me anymore
And how's it gonna be?

Want to get myself back in again
The soft dive of oblivion
I want to taste the salt of your skin
The soft dive of oblivion, oblivion
How's it gonna be?
When you don't know me anymore
How's it gonna be?

How's it gonna be
How's it gonna be


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    Okay, this is defintiely a song about a relationship that's going down the drain. It starts out telling about the relationship and what's wrong with it. The chorus goes into "How's it going to be / When you don't know me anymore", that part seems almost spiteful towards the girl. Then, during the bridge, he reveals that he really doesn't want it to end ("I wanna get myself back in again / The soft dive of oblivion / I wanna taste the salt of your skin") Overall, I really like this song. One of my favorites on 3EB.

    SweetestSirenon May 15, 2002   Link

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