Oh I can't take another heartache
Though you say your my friend, I'm at my wits end
You say your is bonified, but that don't coinside
With the things that you do
When I ask you to be nice, you say

You gotta be, cruel to be kind, in the right measure
Cruel to be kind, it's a very good sign
Cruel to be kind, means that i love you baby (baby)
(You gotta be cruel) You gotta be cruel to be kind

Well I do my best to understand dear
But you still mystify and I want to know why
I pick myself up off the ground, to have you knock me back down
Again and again
When I ask you to explain, you say

(Chorus)

Oh

(Chorus)
Cruel to be kind - In the right measure
Cruel to be kind - Well it's a very, very, very good sign
Cruel to be kind - Means that i love you baby (baby)
(You gotta be cruel) Gotta be cruel to be kind


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    this song actually makes me cry cz it reminds me of my best guy mate. its like, he tells me that hes there for me, that he always will be and that he loves me as a friend, but thn when i need him hes often never there for me, and its just so frustrating and upsetting. this song is just completely me n him. n when i ask him to explain hes just like "no seriously, ur my best friend id never want to hurt you, i AM there for you" so its like hes sticking up for himself. maybe i shud just end our friendship but hes my best friend and i dnt want to let him go. neway, my two cents and what this song is to me.

    em2000on August 18, 2002   Link

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