This is a hauntingly beautiful song about introspection, specifically about looking back at a relationship that started bad and ended so poorly, that the narrator wants to go back to the very beginning and tell himself to not even travel down that road. I believe that the relationship started poorly because of the lines:
"Take me back to the night we met:When the night was full of terrors: And your eyes were filled with tears: When you had not touched me yet"
So, the first night was not a great start, but the narrator pursued the relationship and eventually both overcame the rough start to fall in love with each other:
"I had all and then most of you"
Like many relationships that turn sour, it was not a quick decline, but a gradual one where the narrator and their partner fall out of love and gradually grow apart
"Some and now none of you"
Losing someone who was once everything in your world, who you could confide in, tell your secrets to, share all the most intimate parts of your life, to being strangers with that person is probably one of the most painful experiences a person can go through. So Painful, the narrator wants to go back in time and tell himself to not even pursue the relationship.
This was the perfect song for "13 Reasons Why"
As a child I missed all of the love I never had
And, daddy, he was distant, never there to hold my hand
Never bought the things he'd always promise to give me
Mother made up for him, always watching over me
Days would go by and we would never see his face
In my mind, I'd wonder, "Does he have another place?"
If and when he'd come in he would always be upset
All the kids were scared his next syndrome would be a fret
Now that you are older and you begin to see
Family's important to be there if you need
Father never taught us these things mom said to me
Now the table's turned, so tell me you need me
Tell me
Tell me
Tell me
Just admit you need me
Daddy, daddy dearest, what is it you want from me? (Tell me)
I won't turn my back on you the way you did with me
Now you try to give, I'm always reaching out to grab
I'll give you what I can, but I can't give what I don't have
Mother lends a shoulder to cry on if you need (mother lends a shoulder)
But are you there for mother
If she needs your company? (When she needs your company)
Father never taught us
These things mom said to me (he never taught us, mother said)
Now the table's turned, so tell me you need me
Tell me
Tell me
Tell me
Tell me
Say you need me
If you realize we need each other
We would be a closer family
I need you, yeah (ohh, you need me)
I need you and you know that (ohh, you need me)
Say (tell me)
You need me
(Tell, tell, tell, tell, tell me)
Tell me (yeah, baby)
(Yeah, baby) tell me
Tell me
Now that you are older
Now that you are older and you begin to see (oh, it's so easy to see)
Family's important to be there if you need (so, so, so, and)
Father never taught us these things mom said to me (no, no, never taught us)
Just admit you need me
Tell me that you need me (now that you are older)
Tell me that you love me (now that you are older)
Tell me that you need me (now that you are older)
Just admit that
Tell me you (you), you need me
Now that you are older and you begin to see
Family's important to be there if you need (tell me)
Father never taught us these things mom said to me (father never taught us)
Now the table's turned, so tell me you need me
Mother lends a shoulder to cry on if you need
But are you there for mother when she needs your company? (Are you there for mother?)
Father never taught us (are you there for mother?)
These things mom said to me (are you there for mother?)
Just admit you need me
And, daddy, he was distant, never there to hold my hand
Never bought the things he'd always promise to give me
Mother made up for him, always watching over me
Days would go by and we would never see his face
In my mind, I'd wonder, "Does he have another place?"
If and when he'd come in he would always be upset
All the kids were scared his next syndrome would be a fret
Now that you are older and you begin to see
Family's important to be there if you need
Father never taught us these things mom said to me
Now the table's turned, so tell me you need me
Tell me
Tell me
Tell me
Just admit you need me
Daddy, daddy dearest, what is it you want from me? (Tell me)
I won't turn my back on you the way you did with me
Now you try to give, I'm always reaching out to grab
I'll give you what I can, but I can't give what I don't have
Mother lends a shoulder to cry on if you need (mother lends a shoulder)
But are you there for mother
If she needs your company? (When she needs your company)
Father never taught us
These things mom said to me (he never taught us, mother said)
Now the table's turned, so tell me you need me
Tell me
Tell me
Tell me
Tell me
Say you need me
If you realize we need each other
We would be a closer family
I need you, yeah (ohh, you need me)
I need you and you know that (ohh, you need me)
Say (tell me)
You need me
(Tell, tell, tell, tell, tell me)
Tell me (yeah, baby)
(Yeah, baby) tell me
Tell me
Now that you are older
Now that you are older and you begin to see (oh, it's so easy to see)
Family's important to be there if you need (so, so, so, and)
Father never taught us these things mom said to me (no, no, never taught us)
Just admit you need me
Tell me that you need me (now that you are older)
Tell me that you love me (now that you are older)
Tell me that you need me (now that you are older)
Just admit that
Tell me you (you), you need me
Now that you are older and you begin to see
Family's important to be there if you need (tell me)
Father never taught us these things mom said to me (father never taught us)
Now the table's turned, so tell me you need me
Mother lends a shoulder to cry on if you need
But are you there for mother when she needs your company? (Are you there for mother?)
Father never taught us (are you there for mother?)
These things mom said to me (are you there for mother?)
Just admit you need me
Lyrics submitted by LisaBv1921
You Need Me Lyrics as written by Janet Jackson James Samuel Iii Harris
Lyrics © JANET JACKSON DBA BLACK ICE, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
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