Well, in my opinion this song is about being a young & maybe a little naive &/or introverted girl and finding yourself loving a man who is at first very charming, carefree & outgoing, and seems at first to be without limits, as in
"There was a time
you opened up every doorway
you didn't mind if everything
wasn't your way"
then that man starts to gradually become more introverted & shows their more possessive/obsessive side to you as the relationship progresses, even while they keep up the appearance of being carefree & outgoing to everyone else,
"Don't pull away
that goes against what you told me
I look in your eyes
I realize what you've sold me
is love in a vacuum"
so you confront them about the way they're acting and of course they deny it,
"I think you've changed
but you insist that
that's not true"
quite possibly they are an addict of some sort, my guess would be cocaine, &/or showing very obsessive behavior towards you (early on in the video for this song we see the man hanging a picture up, it is a very large portrait of Aimee & it is prominently displayed in his/their apartment for the duration of the song), thus their "love in a vacuum",
"You look so strange, so distant
that you're hardly you
Now I can see
how you have been acting different
You say it's me
but I know
that it isn't
it's love in a vacuum"
but still you are in love with them and don't want to leave them and you know that they are truly in love with you and they don't want you to leave them either, maybe they are convinced you can save them from themself, maybe they are so broken that the possibility of an overdose &/or suicide attempt is very real and you want to get through to them that their behavior not only dangerous but it is also just pissing you off and if they don't wise up they run the risk of loosing you, as in the lines
"You will be lonely
if you leave me alone", so you want to save them but can't get through to them due to the addiction &/or emotional problems they have,
"Love in a vacuum
and that's not enough
love in a vacuum
You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
You will be lonely
if you leave me alone
You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
it's just not enough"
you want them to understand that the love they are giving you is not enough when it is filtered through the vacuum of their drug addiction &/or emotional impairment,
"You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
it's just not enough
and just wait
you will be lonely
Love in a vacuum
Love in a vacuum
and that's not enough
Love in a vacuum".
'Love In A Vacuum' for me is a hauntingly truthful acute argument on the loneliness of obsession and almost inevitable loss of love that follows people who are broken in some way or another; the obsessives, the coke heads, the drunks, addicts or the just-plain-old emotionally broken; a razor sharp, lyrically driven, deceptively poppy, yet ultimately-depressing-in-the-best-way song.
Quintessential Aimee Mann.
Hey lady, you got the love I need
Maybe more than enough
Oh darling, darling, darling
Walk a while with me
Ohh, you've got so much, so much, so much
Many have I loved, and many times been bitten
Many times I've gazed along the open road
Many times I've lied, and many times I've listened
Many times I've wondered how much there is to know
Many dreams come true, and some have silver linings
I live for my dream, and a pocket full of gold
Mellow is the man who knows what he's been missing
Many, many men can't see the open road
Many is a word that only leaves you guessing
Guessing 'bout a thing you really ought to know, oh, oh, oh, oh
Really ought to know (oh, oh, oh)
I really ought to know
Oh
You know I should, you know I should, you know I should, you know I should
Maybe more than enough
Oh darling, darling, darling
Walk a while with me
Ohh, you've got so much, so much, so much
Many have I loved, and many times been bitten
Many times I've gazed along the open road
Many times I've lied, and many times I've listened
Many times I've wondered how much there is to know
Many dreams come true, and some have silver linings
I live for my dream, and a pocket full of gold
Mellow is the man who knows what he's been missing
Many, many men can't see the open road
Many is a word that only leaves you guessing
Guessing 'bout a thing you really ought to know, oh, oh, oh, oh
Really ought to know (oh, oh, oh)
I really ought to know
Oh
You know I should, you know I should, you know I should, you know I should
Lyrics submitted by kevin, edited by Mellow_Harsher
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Led Zeppelin is great.
People who call it a power stop instead of a hockey stop are greater.
Those who can do it on ice and roller are greatest.
Well that's me and every roller hockey player with their stick handling and easy assimilation of icing and other rules. I'm not talking to my gun I'm talking at it there's a difference. The car must be traveling south.
Explanation - I live in Savannah. I'm on Zeppelin right now.<br /> <br /> Savannah has roller hockey year round. Paula Deen was going to buy the rink but it's there. We actually do really well on roller and ice or we did.<br /> <br /> My high school won the state championship and I scored a goal - it was a fluke - I meant to take a wrist shot and it came out like a pass.<br /> <br /> We have good stick handling different rules that's what we bring and we take the physical aspect depending on who is the ref and whether or not it is a legitimate check i.e. take the puck.<br /> <br /> The car must be traveling south is a comment I read on Dramamine by Modest Mouse. Basically was a sarcastic response to a comment you have to be on Dramamine in a car to understand the song.
And I haven't played hockey in years and plan to play again. I'm old. The adults...they can get physical. Life is great.
The talking at my gun is a reference to Barry in Archer. It's quite funny. Kind of a metaphor to myself responding to myself. Weird to whoever reads but it makes me laugh my ass off.
But Brad Durham is a tool. Brian Abbott of Savannah, GA thinks that Brad Durham, dentist is a douche bag because he used Paula Deen's name to promote his business then let the domain name expire when she was being kicked.<br /> <br /> I didn't like the idea of the rink being a studio but fuck Durham.
High school was great because you had different hobbies.<br /> <br /> I had an assist...over my side around my back the bench went wild. I miss feeling that cool and unassuming. <br /> <br /> Sailing too. High school was good for talents. Led Zeppelin is good for beer and getting laid if you play the guitar. If you play the tuba you're probably fucked I sat through a recital at Alabama and I'm being honest.
If you do play the Tuba take comfort in the fact that your parents will stand up and clap after the recital.
I don't think it was a one timer. But yea it was cool. So is Led Zeppelin. I'm done talking to my gun.