13 Steps Lead Down

I think it's about a woman being abused. But I could be wrong, I'm not that good telling what a song is about.

The bruise line and a few others suggest that it could be about abuse but I think there's more too it than that. "There's commoners and kings, And everyone's a prisoner of paper and glue, And a decent pair of scissors. So tonight I drink to your health, because I just can't stand myself." These lines seem especially cryptic to me. The last bit seems to imply that the girl is not a prisoner, which is why he's drinking to her. Or perhaps she hasn't given up trying to escape, and he has, and he feels bad about it watching her. What she's trying to escape, however, is quite beyond me.

I think it is about a woman who is into kinky sex and has become a prostitute with a pimp who sells her unique services. Commoners and Kings all are attracted to the games she is willing to play and the pimp, who is both benefiting from the blackmail he can inflict upon her patrons (paper, glue, scissors) and disgusted with his own depravity is the POV Elvis takes. I'm assuming 13 steps lead down to the dungeon where the poor girl's abuse occurs.

It's actually very simple.

Elvis is a voyeur, looking at "amateur porn." After all, photos of people naked include both "commoners & kings" (& whose viewers might want to clip & save the images, which is why they need scissors & glue). & most certainly anyone engaged in amateur porn is going to keep it from most of their friends. So, "when nobody knows..." she takes pictures of herself in pornographic situations - some of them bondage related.

Meanwhile, Elvis, sitting at home, looking at this - online? in a magazine? - drinks to her health, full of self-loathing for indulging in this pastime.

Could "ugly drug music" & "bad mood music" be the way Elvis hears porn music? Or is this the "music" of the situation?

I do note this: at some level, the implication of the song is that women do NOT do this of their own volition - that some male in their lives coerce them or force them to "debase" themselves in this way. Elvis seems to be judging them, & himself, for wanting or looking at things like this. Shame on him!

I thought it referenced AA's twelve-step program, as well. Someone has completed the program and has a relapse. The thirteenth step represents the descent back into alcoholism.

Agreed it has something to do with AA.

Paper and glue are used to try to construct destroyed lives back together and scissors represent booze that's shredding them apart.

He says, "13 steps leads down" 12 times in the song, to represent the 12 steps. The 13th step is relapse.

In the "the program" (AA, and all other 12 steps), the hypothetical 13th step is a combination of the first (admit that you are powerless . . .) and the 12th (give away the"gift" of your sobriety to others). Therefore, the 13th step is someone saying "my life is out of control and I want to share it with you". It usually refers to people in early stages of sobriety who get into relationships before they are ready, and thus run a high risk of relapse/fuck up someone else's life. It's not totally clear who is in rehab here -could be the singer, drinking because he can't stand himself. Could be the woman with the bruise. Could even be her other man, who gave her the bruıse. Could be all of the above. Could even be a metaphorical addictıon to a person, rather than alcohol or another substance.

Just thought someone should clarify the reference in the title. I will never be a 12-stepper, but I know a lot of people who went so far that they could not see any other option.

Oh c'mon! It seems to me that this is a joke about various twelve step programs. The thirteenth step is recidivism.

"So tonight I'm drinking to your health Because I just can't stand myself "

I always felt it was about 12 step programs and relapse. The lines "Theres commoners and kings And everyones a prisoner of Paper and glue And a decent pair of scissors", to me, mean anyone of any social status can be affected by addiction, and the meetings have bulletin boards and meeting props consisting of head-lines, collages, hand-made motivational quotes, etc. (paper and glue). The decent pair of scissors has a double meaning to me: one, they're used to make the collages and props and whatnot, and, two, the feeling attendees have that their lives are being cut into and shredded.

How does all this relate to the rest of the song? Well, I think the characters are all in that seedy world that is the result of unchecked addiction, low self-esteem, and lack of decency - seedy people taking advantage of an insecure woman who goes along with their not so gentle prodding - doing things she hates doing, which destroys her self-esteem, leading to her chemical addictions requiring the help of 12 step programs, and, then, a vicious cycle.