Everybody Cares, Everybody Understands Lyrics
"you say you mean well, you don't know what you mean fucking out to stay the hell away from things you know nothing about"
damn straight Elliott Smith
first off, there is another version of this song the original(similiar but different lyrics), which shows u how he felt about this song even more then the lyrics in this version do, so i would suggest listening to that version which is on youtube first. 2nd this is definitely a song about how a bunch of his friends tried to have an intervention for elliott, and he turned them all away. and one of the biggest points i think he was trying to make in this song is, u dont know me, u dont know how i feel, who knows, if i dont have my meds/drugs i might feel so shitty i might want to kill myself. RIP elliott u will be forever LOVED!! wow listening to the alternate version right now, and yes please listen it explains everything alot clearer!!!
Matthew Lemay, in his book "Elliott Smith's XO" (from the "33 1/3" series: which so far includes 50 or so paperbacks, each going into great detail about one record) devotes a chapter to this song. Smith's use of language, Lemay argues, is often deceptively simple.
Lines which may sound as if they're referring to drugs--such as "It's a chemical embrace that kicks you in the head/To a pure synthetic sympathy that infuriates you totally"--aren't always literal. Elliott may have been referencing drugs/intoxication only metaphorically.
The rehab clinic (where he was coerced into treatment by his so-called friends) was in Arizona. You can imagine how oppressive the heat must have been, for someone accustomed to living in Oregon's usually-mild climate. So the "guiding light" of the "brilliant sun"--which, on its face, sounds as if it might be an image of healing, natural beauty--in this instance represents feeling trapped after having been "helped" by people misguided at best, manipulative at worst.
This song definitely has to be about drugs, no? See: "it's a chemical embrace that kicks you in the head, to a pure synthetic sympathy that infuriates you totally" and "a sickened smoke illegal in every town"
I can't see any other possible explanation for it...
this song is about mental house
"It's a chemical embrace that kicks you in the head." Emotions are caused by chemicals within the brain. He could be railing against emotion as just an empty chemical reaction with no meaning, which fits with the idea that he wants people to stop feeling obligated to be sympathetic.
I suppose the same meaning could be applied to, "To a pure synthetic sympathy that infuriates you totally." But the word synthetic makes my mind jump to drugs (whether heroin or the meds administered to him I have no idea) but that interpretation seems a little less kosher to me.
I hate how people gripe when others speculate that his songs are about drugs. Even if it's not ABOUT drugs, he references them in a ton of songs.
This is exactly what Elliott was saying in, "Fucking ought to stay the hell away from things you know nothing about."
How are you going to make a connection to drugs when you have not let them into your life?
(Note: I'm not trying to glamorize substance abuse or anything, but once you've been there, you start connecting the dots in his music. I didn't use when I started listening to ES, and couldn't pick up the references until I did.)
"And a sickened smile illegal in every town" could be a reference to John Prine's "Illegal Smile"
ive knida worked out some chords that fit.
Em
everybody cares...
C G
everybody understands
Am Bm
yes everybody cares about you
Am Bm
whether or not you want them to
and repeat with an extra (and longer Am->Bm) then G ->F->A for the bit about the sun.
cheers, ps its the first song i worked out :)
From what I read in an interview, this song deals with Smith's time in a mental facility. Apparently the place was run by horrible people he's quoted as saying he wants to sue.