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Well it's been ten years and a thousand tears
And look at the mess I'm in
A broken nose and a broken heart
An empty bottle of gin
Well I sit and I pray
In my broken down Chevrolet
While I'm singin' to myself
There's got to be another way
Take away, take away
Take away this ball and chain
Well I'm lonely and I'm tired
And I can't take any more pain
Take away, take away
Never to return again
Take away, take away, take away
Take away this ball and chain
Well I've searched and I've searched
To find the perfect life
A brand new car and a brand new suit
I even got me a little wife
But wherever I have gone
I was sure to find myself there
You can run all your life
But not go anywhere
Take away, take away
Take away this ball and chain
Well I'm sick and I'm tired
And I can't take any more pain
Take away, take away
Never to return again
Take away, take away, take away
Take away this ball and chain
Well I'll pass the bar on the way
To my dingy hotel room
I spent all my money
I've been drinkin' since half past noon
I'll wake there in the mornin'
Or maybe in the county jail
Times are hard, getting harder
I'm born to lose and destined to fail
Take away, take away
Take away this ball and chain
Well I'm lonely and I'm tired
And I can't take any more pain
Take away, take away
Never to return again
Take away, take away, take away
Take away this ball and chain
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Submitted by
dragonflower44 On Dec 18, 2001
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Not sure the song is 'about' anything. Kustom 22 was close. What this song is, is a prayer. The hit bottom, gutter-wallowing, soul-wrenched plea for help to God from someone at the end of their rope. The 'ball and chain' can be anything, gambling, sex, you name it. For Mike Ness it was drugs and alcohol.
Something to ponder is that I firmly believe God listens to prayers like this a whole lot more than He does to the vapid, empty prayers full of 'thous' and 'thines' of some fat pedophile Bishop in flowing robes.
Yes indeed, this is an extremely spiritual and insightful song.
@duhaast I agree with the basics of what you say here. But I also think the lyrics of this song do very specifically express alcohol as the "demon" of the tale. I do not think this is any deep nuanced tale, but rather more a typically sad country/western song where the narrator feels guilty (because he/she is guilty, in this case) and, in this guilt, he/she does not so much seek any kind of redemption or even imagine the potential for it, but rather, looks to have his/her (suggestively, self-imposed) pain taken away (which is typically achieved by death...
@duhaast I agree with the basics of what you say here. But I also think the lyrics of this song do very specifically express alcohol as the "demon" of the tale. I do not think this is any deep nuanced tale, but rather more a typically sad country/western song where the narrator feels guilty (because he/she is guilty, in this case) and, in this guilt, he/she does not so much seek any kind of redemption or even imagine the potential for it, but rather, looks to have his/her (suggestively, self-imposed) pain taken away (which is typically achieved by death and there is some suggestion that is the narrator's desire here, such as with "never to return" and "born to lose/destined to fail")
So, while I agree with your statement that God (or at least, the more decent sort of God) would listen to this person's woe story and be moved more than by the inherent deceit of the priesthood's prayer, even so, I don't think the lyrics speaks in that direction. And the author is also on record sufficiently to conclude that was not part of the intent.
@duhaast true I agree I made this same point at a youth group thing once. A prayer is meant to be a true talk with God from the heart an empty prayer is not a true prayer this is why Jesus condemn pointless repetition in the Bible not that all prayers that are repeated are bad but that you cannot just chant something and not mean it, it needs to have substance the words need to come from the heart. To say “Lord Jesus Christ Son of God have mercy on me a sinner” a hundred times without knowing what...
@duhaast true I agree I made this same point at a youth group thing once. A prayer is meant to be a true talk with God from the heart an empty prayer is not a true prayer this is why Jesus condemn pointless repetition in the Bible not that all prayers that are repeated are bad but that you cannot just chant something and not mean it, it needs to have substance the words need to come from the heart. To say “Lord Jesus Christ Son of God have mercy on me a sinner” a hundred times without knowing what you are asking God to have mercy on you for is nothing compared to truly knowing what you are asking for mercy for and repenting. Not that the Jesus prayer, Hail Mary, Our Father, or any other well known prayer with “things” and “thous” is bad in fact all three of those listed are taken directly from scripture. Once when I was in Confession my Priest said to say for my Penance one Our Father, slowly and taking in all the words I am saying. The Our Father is a great prayer to say even to repeat or say in Latin if you know what you are saying. It’s a prayer praising God, asking to do His will, asking for forgiveness while simultaneously forgiving others, and finally asking Him to deliver us from evil like temptation. Words meant to be spoken from the heart not just spoken. It’s like the Sound of Silence lyric “people talking without speaking”. Anyways I agree with you but just had to defend prayers that had thine and thou in them. It’s sad that many people today don’t know how to truly pray even religious people who just repeat the prayers that had been taught to them without caring to know what they truly mean or praying from the heart.
It's a story about struggling with alcoholism. The Ball and Chain is alcohol.
In the first verse he talks about a broken nose and an empty bottle of gin. Probably from a bar fight. He hits rock bottom and decides "There's got to be another way"
In the second verse he picks himself up and has some success, but the ball and chain drags him back into his old ways. "Wherever I have gone, I was sure to find myself there" - I think he's talking about the bar. "You can run all your life, but not go anywhere". Setting up for the third verse.
In the third verse, he finds himself back into destructive behavior from drinking.
@ZTrance Yes. I think your straightforward interpretation is in line with the straightforward intent of these lyrics. It's a very solid song in my opinion, but not one seeking high ideals. It is like a country western confessional song, where the confessor has no pretension of redemption and is left to seek simple relief from the painful cycle (i.e., death)
@ZTrance Yes. I think your straightforward interpretation is in line with the straightforward intent of these lyrics. It's a very solid song in my opinion, but not one seeking high ideals. It is like a country western confessional song, where the confessor has no pretension of redemption and is left to seek simple relief from the painful cycle (i.e., death)
@ZTrance Yes. I think your straightforward interpretation is in line with the straightforward intent of these lyrics. It's a very solid song in my opinion, but not one seeking high ideals. It is like a country western confessional song, where the confessor has no pretension of redemption and is left to seek simple relief from the painful cycle (i.e., death)
@ZTrance Yes. I think your straightforward interpretation is in line with the straightforward intent of these lyrics. It's a very solid song in my opinion, but not one seeking high ideals. It is like a country western confessional song, where the confessor has no pretension of redemption and is left to seek simple relief from the painful cycle (i.e., death)
Also, I want to emphasize that I think the beauty and poignancy of the lyrics are enhanced by embracing the hopeless, desperate tone over anything suggesting a plea for salvation. I would admit to signs of hope in...
Also, I want to emphasize that I think the beauty and poignancy of the lyrics are enhanced by embracing the hopeless, desperate tone over anything suggesting a plea for salvation. I would admit to signs of hope in verse #1, where "I sit and I pray, there's got to be a better way" -- but I think even verse #1 works best in the overall suggestion of self-admitted defeat. After all, how could accepting yourself to be incapable of self-control be something hopeful? It can be redemptive, as any profound self-recognition should be; but, heroes are heroes and losers are losers. If any salvation awaits, the confessor in this story does not feel deserving of it; rather, the desperation throughout is more suggestive of a call for some final pronouncement of sentence.
I love this song. its awesome to listen to on a bad day.
I don't know if 'happy' is the correct word for it, but the song does have a certain 'you're not here, but you're not all that far from here' quality about it that can act as a catharsis if you're in the right circumstance whne you happen to hear it. Maybe people get cheered up not so much by the song itself, but by the fact that they can listen to Ball & Chain for their wallowing without having to resort to country music schlock. I know that'd cheer me up.
@roleki Very good point about the song's relation to "country music" themes but with music in a context both more like modern rock/new wave and more happy in tone than a typical moody country song of similar theme. It's a great song, in my opinion; but I don't necessarily agree with some of the comments that suggest a plea for salvation or something like that. I like it more as a simple guilty confession/admission of where the narrator ended up after years of the same mistakes: 80% in favor of getting struck by lightning (i.e., "waking up dead"...
@roleki Very good point about the song's relation to "country music" themes but with music in a context both more like modern rock/new wave and more happy in tone than a typical moody country song of similar theme. It's a great song, in my opinion; but I don't necessarily agree with some of the comments that suggest a plea for salvation or something like that. I like it more as a simple guilty confession/admission of where the narrator ended up after years of the same mistakes: 80% in favor of getting struck by lightning (i.e., "waking up dead" after his latest binge) to end his/her seemingly unconquerable misery, rather than have to live again the next day/week, etc.
But wherever I have gone I was sure to find myself there You can run all your life But not go anywhere
Those lines are utterly brilliant. You can try to escape your pain by traveling, finding new friends, taking drugs, etc. But you can't . Because you can't escape from yourself.
This song is ALL about Mikes struggle to get and stay clean! It's loaded with references about a certain 12 step program???
Take away this Ball n Chain! Ball meaning drugs Chain meaning alcohol! I've tried all other ways, but nothing seems to work. I've prayed, please take this addiction away from me!! But then again here we go again! After a while you start to believe your born to lose and destined to fail! Not True though! Great Song! Great Lyrics! Peace Out!!!!!
this song is a freakin classic
This song speaks to me as someone who's completely hit rock bottom with alcohol. It's such a bitch to kick even though you see your life spiraling out of control. It was on my radio every night home from my A/A meetings for the first three months I was sober. Brings a lump to my throat every time I hear it.
This song speaks to me as someone who's completely hit rock bottom with alcohol. It's such a bitch to kick even though you see your life spiraling out of control. It was on my radio every night home from my A/A meetings for the first three months I was sober. Brings a lump to my throat every time I hear it.
Hope you're still sober, man! Cheers.
Hope you're still sober, man! Cheers.
this song never fails to cheer me up a little
I've rediscovered this song these days! It's awesome!