shut down
you turned us off
threw us all out
cleared off the floor
left us wanting more
and you know it ain't right
you said it was o.k.
to play here tonight
to act in the same way
we do all the time
now you've changed your mind
put us in the cold
it must suck growing old

at home,
i still sit alone
i can't live a lie,
i'm still a kid inside
i will grow up in time
here we go

and you say
the time has come
for me to give up
and stop this pretend
or we're at an end
and there must be a way
for things to get better
than it was here today
i damn near upset her
with the way that i am
the way that she wants me to be
i worry too much
oh, love's such a crutch

at home
i still sit alone
i can't live a lie
i'm still a kid inside
i will grow up in time
let me go

i won't grow apart

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    wrfrk_punkon December 06, 2001   Link
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    Hell Yea San Diego Punk Kicks Ass.

    BecDawgon June 09, 2002   Link
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    this song means so much but at the same time nothin at all it means no matter what i do, im gonna do it our way. And yea we are all gonna have to grow up some day, as long as its not today, im gonna live life my way and live my dreams

    teefly6on June 29, 2002   Link

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