In the suburbs I
I learned to drive
And you told me we'd never survive
Grab your mother's keys we're leaving

You always seemed so sure
That one day we'd be fighting in a suburban war
Your part of town against mine
I saw you standing on the opposite shore
But by the time the first bombs fell
We were already bored
We were already, already bored

Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling again

The kids wanna be so hard
But in my dreams, we're still screaming and running through the yard
And all of the walls that they built in the seventies finally fall
And all of the houses they built in the seventies finally fall
Meant nothing at all
Meant nothing at all
It meant nothing

Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling and into the night

So can you understand?
Why I want a daughter while I'm still young
I wanna hold her hand
Show her some beauty before this damage is done
But if it's too much to ask, if it's too much to ask
Then send me a son

Under the overpass
In the parking lot, we're still waiting
It's already passed
So move your feet from hot pavement and into the grass
'Cause it's already passed
It's already, already passed

Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling again

I'm moving past the feeling
I'm moving past the feeling

In my dreams, we're still screaming
We're still screaming
We're still screaming


Lyrics submitted by RickButt, edited by razer951

The Suburbs Lyrics as written by Jeremy Gara, Regine Chassagne, Richard R Parry, Tin Kingsbury, William Butler, Win Butler

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    I was only introduced to this song only a few days ago, and it has had such a profound effect on me. I think the music, lyrics and video fit it perfectly. Personally, I think its about growing up and sadly growing apart from people you once thought you could not survive without. You cant escape from growing up. Some people may see it as a war, as a constant battle that you cant escape, that controls and oppresses you. Some people grow up and get on with it while others are simply stuck in the past. I'll explain why I get this impression.

    "But in my dreams we're still screamin' and runnin' through the yard"- he still imagines them all together, without any care in the world. However, this is only a dream.

    "And all of the walls that they built in the seventies finally fall And all of the houses they build in the seventies finally fall"- When they were younger, they had structure in their lives, school, curfews, rules etc but now there an adult it is not inflicted on them as it once was before. This structure just falls and crumbles away

    "So can you understand? Why I want a daughter while I'm still young I wanna hold her hand And show her some beauty Before this damage is done"- He wants to remember what innocence is before its too late. He needs to feel a true connection to youth before hes completely dead inside.

    "Sometimes I can't believe it I'm movin' past the feeling" Although he wants to remember his youth,and everything it meant to him, its moving further and further away so it is becoming even harder to remember. Even becoming more meaningless.

    "In my dreams we're still screamin'"- When hes asleep, and not in reality, he remembers his youth and him and his friends "screamin' and runnin' through the yard".

    Just an opinion, I think there is a way deeper meaning too, but at the moment, thats the strongest feeling I get from this!!

    Lavatoryon January 28, 2011   Link

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