Tell me where it hurts, so I can reach the pain.
Tell me where it hurts.
Just pump it through my vein.
Be brave and tell me where it hurts.

There's something deep inside that you don't want to show.
There's something that you hide, cause you're afraid I'll go.
But no. Tell me where it hurts.
You tell me not to go.
(tell me where it hurts)

Say you want to be my holy grail.
And your skin is white like fallen snow.
I don't want to leave my marks.
But if I do, are you brave enough
to let me through to touch you where it hurts?
I'll touch you where it hurts.
And you can touch me.
Come on and touch me where it hurts.

Everyone I know seem to be broken inside.
Everybody hurting just from being alive.
Touch me where it hurts.
Come touch me where it hurts.


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    My Interpretation

    I think this is about how important it is to have someone you can truly trust with your pains and fears, and the character here wants his loved one to trust him, even though he knows it can be difficult

    JhonnyBTon December 22, 2023   Link

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