Oh my friend loneliness, where have you been?
You left to the lure of the lover who left me alone
But now you come crawling back, and I'll let you in
Slip back into grooves that we cut in ourselves long ago

But there must be a better half, somewhere out there
She lives a better life, a life that shares
Shares with a better man
The man who is there when she calls in the night
Who says, "Hey, it's alright"

Oh my dear distance, I've met you before
Longing for a lover who's lost on a far distant shore
Oh my imperfections, are all that remain
And the days when I'd love you
And I'd leave you, and you'd wish that I would stay

There must be a better half, somewhere out there
She lives a better life, a life that shares
Shares with a better man
The man who is there when she calls in the night
Who says, "Hey, it's alright"

I know what she looks like, her face and skin, her smell and the rest
I know the feel of her soul, but God help me, I just cannot find her address
Oh, how I've tried but now all that's left
Is my old friend distance and sweet loneliness

There must be a better half, somewhere out there
She lives a better life, a life that shares
Shares with a better man
The man who is there when she calls in the night
Who says, "Hey, it's alright"
Hey, it's alright
Hey, it's alright


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Better Half Lyrics as written by Francis Edward Turner

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    every time i listen to this song tears come to my eyes its amazing

    frank has an amazing talent for being able to connect to every ones pasts with one song

    in this song it relates to any one whos never been good enough for there partener

    frank we love u

    jakesummerson August 04, 2009   Link
  • +2
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    God, I just want to give him a hug and a hot chocolate when I hear this song.

    bleedthecoloursopenon September 23, 2009   Link
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    =( I love this song so much!

    Chrisbrfcon September 13, 2008   Link
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    My Opinion

    Heartbreaking, but slightly hopeful.

    ColliFloweron May 16, 2009   Link
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    this song really hits close to home for me, especially the first part. what a good song even though it makes me sad every time I hear it.

    zneergzon August 25, 2009   Link

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