How dare the premier ignore my invitations?
He'll have to go
So too the bunch he luncheons with
It's second on my list of things to do

At the top I'm stopping by
Your place of work and acting like
I haven't dreamed of you and I
And marriage in an orange grove

You are the only thing
In any room you're ever in
I'm stubborn, selfish and too old

I sat you down and told you how
The truest love that's ever found is for oneself
You pulled apart my theory
With a weary and disinterested sigh

So yes, I guess I'm asking you
To back a horse that's good for glue and nothing else
But find a man that's truer than
Find a man that needs you more than I

Sit with me a while
And let me listen to you talk about
Your dreams and your obsessions
I'll be quiet and confessional

The violets explode inside me
When I meet your eyes
Then I'm spinning and I'm diving
Like a cloud of starlings
Darling, is this love?


Lyrics submitted by niteflite01, edited by ian5652731, vlad3060

Starlings Lyrics as written by Guy Edward John Garvey Craig Lee Potter

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    I'm with you on the superb track, but not the unrequited.

    He's clearly in love, but he's old and cynical and damaged and scared. She knows all this but loves him anyway.

    "I sat you down and told you how the truest love that's ever found Is for oneself You pulled apart my theory With a weary and disinterested sigh"

    The last line "Darling is this love?" is about how when you're older love isn't that all powerful gut-wrenching thing from your teens, the stuff of a million love songs. So in a way it's about Elbow writing a love song for a jaded older generation (you know, older then 30).

    I've often asked when someone like Ben Folds will admit he's balding and can't really pull of songs about high-school any more, this is Elbow answering addressing that dilemma.

    piersyon April 02, 2008   Link

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