Goodbye

Secondhand Serenade

It's a shame, that it had to be this way
It's not enough to say I'm sorry,
It's not enough to say I'm sorry.

Maybe I'm so blind
Or maybe we're the same
But either way I can't breathe
Either way I can't breathe

All I had to say was goodbye,
We're better off this way,
We're better off this way.

I'm alive but I'm losing all my drive
'Cause everything we've been through
And everything about you seems to be a lie,
A guiltless, twisted lie
That made me learn to hate you
Or hate myself for letting it pass by.

All I had to say is goodbye,
We're better off this way,
We're better off this way.

All I had to say is goodbye,
We're better off this way,
We're better off this way.

And every, everything isn't only what it seems
So hold these words that you never told me
It's time to say goodbye, it's time to say goodbye...
Goodbye.

Take my pain away
Tell me I, tell me I was wrong
Tell me I was wrong...


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    Im actually fairly good friends with John.He kind of told me what the song was about without going into details.Well he wrote this song while his wife was in the process of divorcing him.It is basically about the fact that he doesnt want it to end, and hes not sorry for whats happened, and that even though he still loves his wife, he has to let her go, because he knows that they are both better off without each other

    CocaineMasqueradeon October 11, 2009   Link

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