From the moment the lights went off
Everything had changed
Lie awake in an empty room
In my head it all feels the same

Like the taste of the day you left
It still lingers on my breath
And the dampness of tears that left
The stain where you had wept

All alone with the negligee
That still hangs off of my bed
I keep meaning to give it away
But I just leave it there instead

No need to cry about it
I cannot live without it
Every time I wind up back at your door
Why do you do this to me?
You penetrate right through me
Every time I wind up back at your door

Three more days till I see your face
I'm afraid it's far too much
Cook a meal and fix up the place
Dial your number, hang it up

If I took you for granted
I apologize for acting tough
You're my reason for living
And there's no way I'm giving up, oh

No need to cry about it
I cannot live without it
Every time I wind up back at your door
Why do you do this to me?
You penetrate right through me
Every time I wind up back at your door

Now, every evening is a bitter fight
And I'm eating home alone on a Friday night
And I know what your friends say
"He's just wasting your love and time."
I will never let you change your mind

No need to cry about it
I cannot live without it
Every time I wind up back at your door
Why do you do this to me?
You penetrate right through me
Every time I wind up back at your door

No need to cry about it
I cannot live without it
Every time I wind up back at your door
Why do you do this to me?
You penetrate right through me
Every time I wind up back at your door

Every time I wind up back at your door
I said, every time I wind up back at your door


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Back at Your Door Lyrics as written by Adam Noah Levine Jesse Royal Carmichael

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    My Interpretation

    I agree that it's about a guy that is now alone. It sounds like he just got too comfortable in the relationship and took the woman for granted a little bit. She needed more and he's miserable without her. Although the song hints at both of the them being to blame for the relationship in some way, arguing often:

    "Now, every evening is a bitter fight And I'm eating home alone on a Friday night"

    He's having trouble with this. He keeps winding up back at her door looking for another chance. Unfortunately the outcome doesn't look so good which is why the process is ongoing. He keeps going back looking, searching but comes up empty and confused. This leads to heartbreak.

    This song hits home for me, especially the:

    "And I know what your friends say "He's just wasting your love and time"

    part. Women really listen to what their friends say when a relationship is falling apart sometimes.

    I always thought Adam sang: You put a train right through me and not You penetrate right through me

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