Middle Distance Runner

"And I'm off with a shot at the start, And my legs tremble from strain" - When you start the race you cannot start too hard or you will wear yourself out. He throws all of himself into a relationship immediately, but overdoes it and cannot go for the long haul. "And I'm just too tired to fight" "Tonight I will love you forever" - Its all about the passion of the moment. You give them your all but your all soon runs dry.

I feel such a strong connection with this song be I feel it describes me, absolutely perfectly. I also used to be a middle distance runner and I see how the analogy plays into the emotion. This song isn't talking about a one night stand, a "sprint", but an honest attempt for something more, a real love, a real relationship. A middle distance runner though can give so much, they can run fast and run far, but although the running fast is like a "high" and feels amazing, it can't go on forever....

I don't think this song is about him putting the blame on her or feeling that the girl he is singing about falling short. It is about his own inability to fully devote himself to a relationship. He clearly wants a relationship - "And I'm off with a shot at the start And my legs tremble from strain" -he's off with good intentions, but doesn't have the strength to continue. Good song either way

i feel ya JoeN. this analogy gets me going too, im a big runner and ive often asked my coach when ill be able to start moving on from the shorter distances im doing now to marathon training and he always says something along the lines of: " younger minds (and bodies) typically arent strong enough for that kind of mileage, youll just fall apart and feel youre missing out on something. with age will come the maturity and strength (stamina) you will need."

so im going to use this analogy as an excuse at my lack luster way of loving. that ive only ever been taught how to be a "middle distance runner", and maybe with time and wisdom ill be able to one day learn the ways of the longer-term stuff.

He's been working so hard in his relationship (tired from the day on the track) and now he's starting to give up, because he realized that he'll never be anything she's dreamed of (middle distance runner)

He put everything into the relationship with the next verse, and realizes that it isn't going to work out, and there isn't exactly a future between them.

He still loves her though. even if she says she wants to come back to him, later on after they've grown apart (woman you've become), he knows it wont work out because he's a middle distance runner still. but he'll love her anyways, and he knows it won't ever work.

Well I'm so sad tonight And the words won't come out right It's been a long day on the track And it's stamina that I lack

• I think it's about a man who is in love with a free-spirited woman. Being with her is exhilarating, but exhausting; it feels like he's constantly chasing after her. He's trying to match her pace, but it's just not in him.

So won't you run to me tonight? Tonight we could pretend that we're just lovers But I'll only ever be a middle distance runner

• Here he's asking her to meet him half-way. Instead of him always following her, would she be willing to stop and come to him for once? He's laying it out plainly for her: "I'll only ever be a middle distance runner", which is to say, I'm a 'take things slowly as they come' kind of guy, and I may not be as quick to sprint ahead as you are, but if you're okay with that, I want to be with you.

Well my heart is beating hard And I'm off with a shot at the start And my legs tremble from strain But by the finish line I am drained

• Another stanza describing the constant game of catch up that characterizes their relationship.

So won't you run to me tonight? Tonight let's not talk about next summer Cause I'll only ever be a middle distance runner

• Perhaps the girl is always talking about the future, thinking about the consequences of her actions, and the things that are yet to come, but not inevitable. The man is saying, let's take care of the things that are now, and not worry about things we can't control or that may not happen. Let's get our relationship sorted out before we consider the future.

Well I'm so proud tonight Of the woman you've become And I'm just too tired to fight So my darling, I'll succumb

• He's completely in love with her and he's entrusting himself to her. Perhaps falling into her pace?

But you'll have to run to me tonight Tonight I will love you forever But I'll only ever be a middle distance runner

• If you want us to be together, you're going to have to keep in mind my limitations and personality, and we're each going to have to adjust our paces.

Essentially it's a sweet love song about learning to adapt yourself to another person.

I know a lot of people have interpreted this song as being about a relationship, and it is, I think, in a way, but I've always really felt that it's more about the narrator struggling with depression.

'Well I'm so sad tonight And the words won't come out right It's been a long day on the track And it's stamina that I lack'

He starts out by saying that tonight he's really struggling with his sadness, that it's hard to communicate what he's feeling, then goes on to say that his day on the track was exhausting. This is where the 'runner' metaphor for his depression begins. Running on a track is boring and there's often very little variation. He's saying that he's uninterested in life, and having to go through the motions is exhausting.

The chorus is interesting:

'So won't you run to me tonight? Tonight we could pretend that we're just lovers But I'll only ever be a middle distance runner'

Asking her to run to him is his way of asking for help. He's exhausted and cannot go to her, so he asks her to come to him. The second line could mean that they have a much deeper bond, and that they could pretend that they're 'just' lovers. But the last line is the core of the metaphor: I'll only ever be a middle distance runner.

'Well my heart is beating hard And I'm off with a shot at the start And my legs tremble from strain But by the finish line l am drained'

This is him explaining that he started too quickly in the 'race,' in other words, in life. He tried to function normally, tried to keep up a quick pace, tried to keep up appearances, but by the end of the day, he could barely walk anymore.

'So won't you run to me tonight? Tonight let's not talk about next summer Cause I'll only ever be a middle distance runner'

This is, I think, where the metaphor really comes together. He asks her to reach out to him again, then says he's unable to talk about next summer. Combined with the previous verse about starting too quickly, we can really see how he's a middle distance runner, unable to sprint but incapable of enduring. Part of the reason I believe this song is about depression is because of my own experience with it. It's hard to get out of bed sometimes, to 'sprint' or start a day strongly, but it's impossible to think about the future. How can you when you can barely survive day to day?

'Well I'm so proud tonight Of the woman you've become And I'm just too tired to fight So my darling, I'll succumb'

This final verse is haunting. He's proud of his lover for all her accomplishments, he admires and cherishes her, but he's tired. Depression saps you of energy, makes you believe that living just isn't worth it, so he says he's too tired to fight that belief anymore and says he'll succumb. In other words, he's saying goodbye, and, in the final chorus, that he'll love her forever.

I know that life experiences inform interpretations of art and music, and this is only my interpretation. But since the very first time I heard this song, it really resonated with me, because I've felt the same bone-weary exhaustion he speaks about.

Some of these lyrics are incorrect. It should be like this:

So won't you run to me tonight?

Tonight we could pretend that we're just lovers But I'll only ever be a middle distance runner

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Well my heart is beating hard And I'm off with a shot at the start And my legs tremble from strain

But by the finish line I am drained

great song. About not being able to sustain a long term relationship.

It's my favorite song.

I saw them live singing this song, at the sunset juction they were great

I think it's about being with someone and knowing that you won't be true lovers and having something/someone always in the way. And the only way they can truly be lovers is to get away from everything or let go of what is standing in the way.