It's not a silly little moment
It's not the storm before the calm
This is the deep and dying breath of
This love that we've been working on
Can't seem to hold you like I want to
So I can feel you in my arms
Nobody's gonna come and save you
We pulled too many false alarms

We're going down
And you can see it too
We're going down
And you know that we're doomed
My dear, we're slow dancing in a burning room

I was the one you always dreamed of
You were the one I tried to draw
How dare you say it's nothing to me?
Baby, you're the only light I ever saw
I'll make the most of all the sadness
You'll be a bitch because you can
You'll try to hit me, just to hurt me
So you leave me feeling dirty
'Cause you can't understand

We're going down
And you can see it too
We're going down
And you know that we're doomed
My dear, we're slow dancing in a burning room

Go cry about it, why don't you?
Go cry about it, why don't you?
Go cry about it, why don't you?

My dear, we're slow dancing in a burning room
Burning room
Burning room
Burning room
Burning room

Don't you think we ought to know by now?
Don't you think we should've learned somehow?
Don't you think we ought to know by now?
Don't you think we should've learned somehow?
Don't you think we ought to know by now?
Don't you think we should've learned somehow?


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    This song was the first one in the album that made me cry. Number two on intensity. It reminded me of someone whom I really loved. But like John says, we were doomed. No matter how I wanted to turn the player off, I couldn't because the pain felt familiar, and in a way, nice. We're that way sometimes. Even though in our minds and hearts, we know that something can't last, we fight for it because we like the pain, we love LOVE. I'm most moved by

    "You try to hit me just hurt me So you leave me feeling dirty Because you can't understand "

    ...I wanted to so much... But I couldn't... I'm falling all over again for John Mayer because when you listen to his songs, it's like his talking to you, telling you about his life..and you tell him, "Yeah, I know what you mean, John"...

    joanneofmineon September 24, 2006   Link

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