This is a hauntingly beautiful song about introspection, specifically about looking back at a relationship that started bad and ended so poorly, that the narrator wants to go back to the very beginning and tell himself to not even travel down that road. I believe that the relationship started poorly because of the lines:
"Take me back to the night we met:When the night was full of terrors: And your eyes were filled with tears: When you had not touched me yet"
So, the first night was not a great start, but the narrator pursued the relationship and eventually both overcame the rough start to fall in love with each other:
"I had all and then most of you"
Like many relationships that turn sour, it was not a quick decline, but a gradual one where the narrator and their partner fall out of love and gradually grow apart
"Some and now none of you"
Losing someone who was once everything in your world, who you could confide in, tell your secrets to, share all the most intimate parts of your life, to being strangers with that person is probably one of the most painful experiences a person can go through. So Painful, the narrator wants to go back in time and tell himself to not even pursue the relationship.
This was the perfect song for "13 Reasons Why"
What the hell is wrong with you tonight
I can't seem to say or do the right thing
Wanted to be sure you're feeling right
Wanted to be sure we want the same thing
She said I can't believe it
You can't I simply mean it
Don't we all want the same thing
Don't we, well who said anything about love
No not love she said
Don't you know that it's different for girls
(Don't give me love)
No not love she said
Don't you know that it's different for girls
You're all the same
Momma always told me save yourself
Take a little time and find the right girl
Then again don't end up on the shelf
Logical advice gets you in a whirl
I know a lot of things that you don't
You wanna hear some
She said just give me something Anything
Well give me all you've got but not love
No not love she said
Don't you know that it's different for girls
(Don't give me love)
No not love she said
Don't you know that it's different for girls
You're all the same
You're all the same (Echoed 7x)
Well who said anything about love
No not love she said
Don't you know that it's different for girls
(Don't give me love)
No not love she said
Don't you know that it's different for girls
(Don't give me love)
No no no no not love she said
Don't you know that it's different for girls
(Don't give me love)
No no no no not love she said
Don't you know that it's different for girls
You're all the same x7
I can't seem to say or do the right thing
Wanted to be sure you're feeling right
Wanted to be sure we want the same thing
She said I can't believe it
You can't I simply mean it
Don't we all want the same thing
Don't we, well who said anything about love
No not love she said
Don't you know that it's different for girls
(Don't give me love)
No not love she said
Don't you know that it's different for girls
You're all the same
Momma always told me save yourself
Take a little time and find the right girl
Then again don't end up on the shelf
Logical advice gets you in a whirl
I know a lot of things that you don't
You wanna hear some
She said just give me something Anything
Well give me all you've got but not love
No not love she said
Don't you know that it's different for girls
(Don't give me love)
No not love she said
Don't you know that it's different for girls
You're all the same
You're all the same (Echoed 7x)
Well who said anything about love
No not love she said
Don't you know that it's different for girls
(Don't give me love)
No not love she said
Don't you know that it's different for girls
(Don't give me love)
No no no no not love she said
Don't you know that it's different for girls
(Don't give me love)
No no no no not love she said
Don't you know that it's different for girls
You're all the same x7
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