Now that everybody's worn the expression
"Not that you wanted to use,"
It seems untrue now...
But the funniest thing is
It fits you now
To a perfect T...

You may never understand this affliction,
Although you feel the effects.
You feel bruised now, body and mind
You feel used now, almost all of the time
Been abused
Abused
Abused

Sunday morning in the aisle with my brother:
Watching the man in black tell the youths how
They're supposed to behave, but tell the truth now:
You don't know what you're saying,
We've been abused
Abused
Abused
Abused
Abused
Abused
Abused

Other people see some evil intention,
But the closer you get,
The more you get confused how...
Why does everyone know?
Been abused now;
Didn't want it to show...


Lyrics submitted by RomanCandle, edited by dogcity, Jate

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    I think it's amazing how he's written this song where he sings overtly about having been abused, to the point of even naming his song "Abused", and then in the last lines he says: "Why does everyone know; Been abused now; Didn't want it to show".

    It's like it's two parts of him at war. One part wants to keep everything to himself, to be private, to hide the pain that's inside and what has happened to him. The other part thinks there's no point to making music that isn't true (heard a quote where he said this once), and maybe needs to write his history in order to deal with it, so he tells us all these intimate details of what has happened to him. And not just with this song; the abuse theme is in "Roman Candle", "Waltz #2", "Some Song", "No Name #4" and probably a whole bunch more I can't think of right now.

    And then he denies that his songs come from personal stories. But of course they do, and he knows we know it. Two sides at war again.

    frejaon June 02, 2010   Link

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