I'd rather be lonely, I'd rather be free
I'm as sure as the moon rolls around the sea
But I like watching you undress
And I think we're at our best
By the flicker by the light of the TV set

'Cause I can't remember why I hated you
Can't remember why I still do
But I'm as sure as the moon rolls around you
That I could be happy, happy
Oh, so happy, happy
Oh, so happy, so happy

They warn you about killers and thieves in night
I worry about cancer and living right
But my mama never warned me about my own
Destructive appetite

Or the pitfalls of control
How it locks you in your grave
Looking for someone to be saved and not restrained
So I could be happy, happy
Oh so happy, happy
Oh so happy, happy
So happy, so happy

I'm as sure as the moon rolls around


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Happy Lyrics as written by Jenny Lewis

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    Everyone has given explanations for bits and pieces of this song, and while it is pretty straight forward, I will give my full explanation.

    In the beginning she is saying that she would rather be alone because shed be free. She is pretty sure of that. But then she has found someone who she really cares about. Someone who she enjoys doing the simple things in life with (which in my opinion is true love, a relationship where you can be yourself, and where you can do absolutely nothing with the person and still have a good time...) BUT i digress...

    These next few lines i can really relate to. She says "i cant remember why i hated you, and cant remember why i still do" Often in relationships, we dont always fall in love with the person at first sight. We meet them, form opinions about them, (and in this case maybe Jenny didnt like him) and one day you could wake up and realize you cant live w/o the person. So it sounds like this may have happened to Jenny and she didnt like the guy and still has certain things she dislikes in him but she realizes he can make her Happy,oh so Happy.

    Now this verse is my favorite line in any song. She is talking about all the normal things that can cause you harm and how other people always warn you of these things. But the one thing no one ever tells you is how You can be your own worst enemy. Control is a crazy thing. There are people out there (i admit i am one of them) who cant stand to not have control of a situation. In love though, you cant have that attitude. Love is about losing control and letting yourself go. Jenny realizes that she has a hard time doing this.

    She says that she knows she can be happy with this person, she just has to let it happen ~Peace

    roxyjl186on December 28, 2007   Link
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    I think it's "Killers and thieves in the night"

    CarouselOfPictureson July 12, 2007   Link
  • +1
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    fucking brilliant!

    myhomeistheseaon November 29, 2009   Link
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    I think part of the song means that you're always warned about the things that attack you, and never about what you can do to yourself by misbelieving what is right.

    blueoftheskyon January 27, 2006   Link
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    I think part of the song means that you're always warned about the things that attack you, and never about what you can do to yourself by misbelieving what is right.

    blueoftheskyon January 27, 2006   Link
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    Yeah, I would agree with that. I'd say she's saying that you're never warned against self destructiveness and also how people can become obsessed with control and let it take over their lives.

    cutie_carnivoreon February 17, 2006   Link
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    Its about giving into sexual desires and wanting to be in control of someone else, about a womans need to own a man.

    htcoreon March 02, 2006   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    htcore, i like your explaination. a lot. never thought of it that way before.

    downtownon May 23, 2006   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    I think the song is about how none of the things she was warned about are happening to her so she must be "happy" but she isn't

    HeythereDelilahon July 09, 2006   Link
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    i love this song so much.

    and amen about destructive appetites

    hustleroseon August 13, 2006   Link

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