Well, in my opinion this song is about being a young & maybe a little naive &/or introverted girl and finding yourself loving a man who is at first very charming, carefree & outgoing, and seems at first to be without limits, as in
"There was a time
you opened up every doorway
you didn't mind if everything
wasn't your way"
then that man starts to gradually become more introverted & shows their more possessive/obsessive side to you as the relationship progresses, even while they keep up the appearance of being carefree & outgoing to everyone else,
"Don't pull away
that goes against what you told me
I look in your eyes
I realize what you've sold me
is love in a vacuum"
so you confront them about the way they're acting and of course they deny it,
"I think you've changed
but you insist that
that's not true"
quite possibly they are an addict of some sort, my guess would be cocaine, &/or showing very obsessive behavior towards you (early on in the video for this song we see the man hanging a picture up, it is a very large portrait of Aimee & it is prominently displayed in his/their apartment for the duration of the song), thus their "love in a vacuum",
"You look so strange, so distant
that you're hardly you
Now I can see
how you have been acting different
You say it's me
but I know
that it isn't
it's love in a vacuum"
but still you are in love with them and don't want to leave them and you know that they are truly in love with you and they don't want you to leave them either, maybe they are convinced you can save them from themself, maybe they are so broken that the possibility of an overdose &/or suicide attempt is very real and you want to get through to them that their behavior not only dangerous but it is also just pissing you off and if they don't wise up they run the risk of loosing you, as in the lines
"You will be lonely
if you leave me alone", so you want to save them but can't get through to them due to the addiction &/or emotional problems they have,
"Love in a vacuum
and that's not enough
love in a vacuum
You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
You will be lonely
if you leave me alone
You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
it's just not enough"
you want them to understand that the love they are giving you is not enough when it is filtered through the vacuum of their drug addiction &/or emotional impairment,
"You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
it's just not enough
and just wait
you will be lonely
Love in a vacuum
Love in a vacuum
and that's not enough
Love in a vacuum".
'Love In A Vacuum' for me is a hauntingly truthful acute argument on the loneliness of obsession and almost inevitable loss of love that follows people who are broken in some way or another; the obsessives, the coke heads, the drunks, addicts or the just-plain-old emotionally broken; a razor sharp, lyrically driven, deceptively poppy, yet ultimately-depressing-in-the-best-way song.
Quintessential Aimee Mann.
I sit around and think about
all the times we shared
all the time.
I wonder what you dream about,
where you go and have been
all the time.
You broke my heart.
You broke my heart again,
and now I know.
If this is a test, I'm gonna fail it my best.
The only way to stay true.
And this is my destiny,
and there is no helping me.
Life is bitter sweet.
Things change although they seem the same,
and there'll be no more waiting for your lies.
I found someone else just like you,
and now it's starting to unwind
all the time.
We fell apart.
You broke my heart again,
and now I know.
If this is a test,
I'm gonna fail it my best.
The only way to stay true.
And this is my destiny,
and there is no helping me.
Life is bitter sweet.
You say it's time to get over the pain.
Well, I still, I still love her.
You say it's time to get over the pain.
Well, I still, I still love her.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I still love her.
(I still love her)
If this is a test,
I'm gonna fail it my best.
The only way to stay true.
And this is my destiny,
and there is no helping me.
Life is bitter sweet.
You say it's time to get over the pain.
Well, I still, I still love her.
You say it's time to get over the pain.
Well, I still, I still love her.
I still love her.
all the times we shared
all the time.
I wonder what you dream about,
where you go and have been
all the time.
You broke my heart.
You broke my heart again,
and now I know.
If this is a test, I'm gonna fail it my best.
The only way to stay true.
And this is my destiny,
and there is no helping me.
Life is bitter sweet.
Things change although they seem the same,
and there'll be no more waiting for your lies.
I found someone else just like you,
and now it's starting to unwind
all the time.
We fell apart.
You broke my heart again,
and now I know.
If this is a test,
I'm gonna fail it my best.
The only way to stay true.
And this is my destiny,
and there is no helping me.
Life is bitter sweet.
You say it's time to get over the pain.
Well, I still, I still love her.
You say it's time to get over the pain.
Well, I still, I still love her.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I still love her.
(I still love her)
If this is a test,
I'm gonna fail it my best.
The only way to stay true.
And this is my destiny,
and there is no helping me.
Life is bitter sweet.
You say it's time to get over the pain.
Well, I still, I still love her.
You say it's time to get over the pain.
Well, I still, I still love her.
I still love her.
Lyrics submitted by germantownrd
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This song is so perfect for me... I just got out of an 11 month relationship and all I can think about is her still.
"I sit around and think about, all the times we shared all the time. " It just seems like nothing has changed, yet so much has and I dont know if I will ever get her back. This song is all about love and how sometimes it can just end unexpectedly and without notice, and to cherish the time you have with that person.
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meh, this makes me think of how Angie lied to Steven.
Well Angie; Angie dated Steven over the internet. and Angie was really Chelsea. Chelsea lied about everything. andand; i know that Steven still loves "Angie." Just not Chelsea.
god its sad
one of the best songs on this album no doubt, i wonder why no one seems to comment on it...
maybe noone comments this because its not on the album . ahahahaahah . :]
but its a great song .
Lol dis song iz da shit cuz it made me laugh so hard ,milk shot out of of my nose and fried my ipod lol.
But it's on their old album, the self-titled LP.
Yeah this album is alot different than Don't You Fake It. You can see that the arrangement is alot less organized in this one, but it's definitely more raw.
Idk which one I like better yet.
Peace.