Talking to Mary, you know you don't have to shout
She can hear what you're thinking like you're saying it right out loud

She sees behind that dirty look
It was her that followed down every every stupid turn you took

One day she'll go, I told you so
One day she'll go, I told you so

Saw the one big problem you keep under your hat
And its pretty unlikely that anyone else is cool with that

You got a bus fare in your pocket and more money down in your sock
But I can't tell you how to find her if you won't listen to her talk

One day she'll go, I told you so
One day she'll go, I told you so

Its no problem, I'll just keep quiet if its easier for you
To make believe in that I don't love you as much as I do

One day she'll go, I told you so
One day she'll go, I told you so
I told you so, I told you so


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Talking to Mary Lyrics as written by Steven Paul Smith

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    i think it's about Mother Mary. in the first stanza sounds like a prayer to me and second stanza how she always lookin' after you but she's invisble so she can't contact you and eventually she'll give up on you and he confesses that he doesnt have much faith in mother mary so he'll just take care of his problem on his own. oh yeah he also talks about how everyone has a secret or two that no one wishes to let anyone know or to tell anyone

    chopstickthugzon May 23, 2007   Link
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    General Comment

    he also uses that line in the Either/Or Sessions version of "Pretty Mary K." Since the latter song sounds like it's about a prostitute, I'll venture to say that this one is also. But, not that Mary is the prostitute, but the "you" in the song.

    Beautiful and haunting song.

    junkbondtrader1500on December 18, 2006   Link
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    My Interpretation

    I do t really know if Elliott was a religious guy, and probably not. But I guess in this song he is playing graetly with the idea of "Morher Mary" at least the Chrustian figure of it and how she has omniscient powers to look after someone... pretty cool song though.

    HectorAlonso28on September 24, 2022   Link
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    General Comment

    i'm pretty sure this is about mary lou lord

    whatcapo?on July 30, 2005   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    he likes the idea of money in socks ey? i like this song

    giv_emhellkidon September 18, 2006   Link
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    General Comment

    lyric correction*-it isn't `but i can't tell you how to find her if you won't listen to her talk'

    it's

    but she can't tell you how to contact her if you won't listen to her talk

    &

    to make believe inthen that i dont love you...

    just minor things. but i love this song. and jbt1500, to put the connection out there to Pretty Mary K, ahh. i love how he connects songs and 'characters' and such. elliott is indescribable....

    prettywhnsedatedon December 19, 2006   Link
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    this sounds like its about his mom and charlie. the song 'pretty mary k' was supposedly about his mother, so maybe he continued to use the name mary if he talked about her.

    rollercoastersonjaon January 07, 2007   Link
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    one of his greatest

    kidAlauraon July 16, 2007   Link
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    General Comment

    I dunno, I think it could be about smoking pot (ie. Mary Jane). Particularly, "She sees behind that dirty look/It was her that followed down every stupid turn you took."

    Badjaon November 15, 2007   Link
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    General Comment

    For some reason, it reminds me of the Nick Drake song, The Thoughts Of Mary Jane - "Who can know the thoughts of Mary Jane / Why she flies or goes out in the rain/ Where she's been and who she's seen in her journey to the stars."

    Badjaon November 15, 2007   Link

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