Over by the window, there's a pack of cigarettes
Not my brand, you understand
Sometimes the girl forgets
She forgets to hide them
I know who left those smokes behind
She'll say, "ah, he's just a friend"
And I'll say, "oh, I'm not blind"

To him, him, him, what's she gonna do about him?
She's gonna have to do without him
Or do without me, me, me
No one gets to get it for free
It's me or it's him

Don't know what he looks like
Don't know who he is
Don't know why she thought that I
Would say what's mine is his

I don't want to own her
But I can't let her have it both ways
Three is one too many of us
She leaves with me or stays

With him, him, him, what's she gonna do about him?
She's gonna have to do without him
Or do without me, me, me
No one gets to get it for free
It's me or it's him

Ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh

If she wants him, she can have him
Just exactly how we once were
It's goodbye to he and I
And back to me and her

Without him, him, him, what's she gonna do about him?
She's gonna have to do without him
Or do without me, me, me
No one gets to get it for free
Time for me to make the girl see

It's me or it's him, him, him
What's she gonna do about him?
She's gonna have to do without him
Or do without me, me, me
No one gets to get it for free
Time for me to make the girl see
It's me or it's him


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    My Interpretation

    It's about a man who finds out that his wife has a "friend" and he tells her "it's me or it's him".

    TheGraduateon May 17, 2017   Link

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