You're strong, you're stubborn now
In an endless symbolic war
Brave or bored
Either/or

Sometimes I ricochet from the past
And at times, a future I've already had before
Champion or chore
Either/or

I'll write the pages you rip out
Back in their places again
One day you'll know what you're talking about
I can hardly imagine
But until then I'll be

Filling in these blanks that you create
Every time you win some petty score
Posing as hardcore, oh yeah
Either/or

Look at the spin chief, battered and broken
Clutching a plastic rose
We're all in the downpour you carry around for
Trashing a lifestyle you've never known

It's a useful dream that makes
Quite an entertaining show
And not much more up against and for
Either/or


Lyrics submitted by sethbrown, edited by artslut, Jate, Enteller

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    this might be my favorite of his unreleased songs. He really really should have left this one on either/or, it clearly deserved to be on there. brave or bored, champion or chore, posing as harcore, up against and for - either or. Exactly. The choices in life, the polar opposites, one or the other.. whatever. I love his wordplay in this song. He really made it sound good rather than focus on a story with a message inside it. There is a message, but its a different song for him. Filling in these blanks that you create Every time you win some petty score Posing as hardcore, oh yeah, either/or -i have felt this many times with people Either/Or - taken from a great book by Kierkegaard... oh existentialism, how i love you.

    lisalynnon February 04, 2005   Link

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