So far from me stands a man known as disease
He's shaking all the hands
Of the people that he meets
And now you just don't see me anymore
Now I've been losing everything
You just don't see me anymore
I'll say goodbye

Since you left she's a mess
She regrets all the things
That she could have said but
We fall asleep, never think about anything
We wake to the sound of a phone
As it hits the ground and oh
You just don't see me anymore
Now I've been losing everything
You just don't see me anymore
I'll say goodbye

And oh at the wake, at the wake
I will turn to see a face
Just a face, just a face
That's surrounded by a name
What a name, what a name
And you never want to change
What you gave, what you gave
Never want to let go

So surround me
I need anything and you you're everything
I want to live like I did before all this hit
To sleep in your arms to think
We'll never fall apart and oh
You know it's, you know it's such a drag
To live your life for a heart attack
To never get a second chance to say goodbye
To say goodbye I'll never get to try
You just don't see me anymore
Oh I've been losing everything
You just don't see me anymore
I'll say goodbye


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At the Wake Lyrics as written by Nathaniel Thomas Wilson

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    Here's what I think: this song is a story.

    A guy is reminiscing about a breakup, and lamenting that they had to drift apart. I think they didn't understand each other after a while ("you just don't see me anymore") and they've drifted.

    The turning point is when they "wake to the sound of the phone as it hits the ground" and the singer and his ex are reunited at this funeral. Upon seeing her, he realizes how much he misses her. He wants a second chance, even if it's a "second chance to say goodbye."

    I get a little confused though, by how many people are involved in this story.

    Either way, it's an incredible song, and one of the better Format pieces. Absolutely worth buying, as its a departure from their normal style, but with all their usual brilliance.

    myphilosophyon April 03, 2007   Link

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