There's a place in my heart that won't kiss you goodbye that can't accept the truth that things aren't working out as planned. its so hard to admit that I drove you away with all this negativity, this anger every day. Your heart doesn't belong to me. Your heart doesn't belong to me. I know I don't have the right to bug you with how this feels, its just the hardest thing I've been through, nothings ever felt so real. And on this Sunday night you'll be making love to him, I know because you told me I'm never going to win. Your heart doesn't belong to me. The blood is not on your hands. Its not your fault that I write these things at night. I brought it on myself. I deserve this. I deserve this. I deserve this. Do I really deserve this?


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    This song is pretty much any harsh break up.. always wondering who is to blame.. its just how love is tough and they always end with a question mark.

    GetWellSoonon April 29, 2002   Link
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    this song is amazing.

    Anne Arbouron April 29, 2002   Link
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    This song is totally where I am at right now.

    Telex22on May 01, 2002   Link
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    me too. it describes the situation i'm in so closely that it's scary and yet comforting at the same time...

    xSadderStarxon May 24, 2002   Link
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    This is soo sad, i cry everytime I hear it. You can hear the pain in his voice, it seems like it's soo hard on him.

    PardonMeMrPunkron July 02, 2002   Link
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    i've been there. i am there. you don't want to be there. if you're not there, consider yourself very lucky. yea. great song. work of art.

    xourlustburningmadxon July 27, 2002   Link
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    gosh i love this song! does anyone know where i can download more songs from this band? just the way he cries and the way i cry, wow . . . . its a beautiful song.

    too_confusedon August 06, 2002   Link
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    This song is probably in greater Internet distribution than the rest of his (I say 'his' because Kind of Like Spitting is essentially 1 guy w/ guest musicians) songs because it's from a compilation. If you like it, a good album to start out w/ is Nothing Makes Sense Without It. I think that "All Else Failed" was recorded around the same session. Check out hushrecords.com, jealousbutcher.com, slowdance.com, and barsuk.com for info.

    passdoubton August 12, 2002   Link
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    aww look. it's everything i feel about tony.

    nonpunkon September 15, 2002   Link
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    his voice gives me the willies when the song gets extremely emotional...it's like i can feel the hurt and pain going on. i can relate to this and yeah it sucks...i'm never going to win

    Drumenon April 26, 2003   Link

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