How does it feel to treat me like you do?
When you've laid your hands upon me
And told me who you are
I thought I was mistaken
I thought I heard your words
Tell me, how do I feel?
Tell me, now, how do I feel?

How does it feel?
How should I feel?
Tell me how does it feel
To treat me like you do

Those who came before me
Lived through their vocations
From the past until completion
They'll turn away no more
And I still find it so hard
To say what I need to say
But I'm quite sure that you'll tell me
Just how I should feel today

I see a ship in the harbor
I can and shall obey
But if it wasn't for your misfortunes
I'd be a heavenly person today
And I thought I was mistaken
And I thought I heard you speak
Tell me, how do I feel?
Tell me, now, how should I feel?
Now I stand here waiting

I thought I told you to leave me
When I walked down to the beach
Tell me how does it feel
When your heart grows cold

How does it feel?
How should I feel?
Tell me how does it feel
To treat me like you do
How does it feel?
How should I feel?
Tell me how does it feel
To treat me like you do
How does it feel?
How should I feel?
Tell me how does it feel
To treat me like you do


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Blue Monday Lyrics as written by Bernard Sumner Gillian Lesley Gilbert

Lyrics © Kanjian Music, Universal Music Publishing Group, Royalty Network

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  • +2
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    This song reminded me of when I lived at home with my mom. It seems like our relationship was so much like this. She would bring me down to nothing, tell me exactly how I was to feel/act. I hated the feeling of not having any control over my own life. I would obey what she said, and it seemed like it was still never enough.

    RachMStechon May 18, 2002   Link
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    Orgy's version of this song is much MUCH better than the original...Jay adds a certain "emotion" with his voice hat is just incredible!!..Tabu- that's not strange at all...it is a very sexy voice for a vey sexy man!! hehe...too bad he's like 36.. :)

    SteptOnB1tchon July 23, 2002   Link
  • +1
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    i like this version better than the original. it has an angry tone/beat to it that was missing in new order's version.

    stacibugon May 09, 2002   Link
  • +1
    General Comment

    awesome song!

    Sephirothon May 23, 2002   Link
  • +1
    General Comment

    One of my favorite orgy songs, and therefore one of my favorite songs. The New Order version is dirt in comparison!

    Emmelstoneon September 06, 2002   Link
  • +1
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    This is about someone with alot of controlling problems and his relationship with them. It doesn't even have to be a g/f, maybe his mother, alot of mothers tend to be that way. I really love this song, and I suggest everyone to go and Download it. AWESOME KICK ASS SONG! Orgy is one of the best bands i've ever heard. You should also download "Slept So Long" by Jay Gordon (of Orgy obviously) just type in the song name, but that is also a kickin ass song. WOAH!

    shorty415on May 03, 2003   Link
  • +1
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    Best cover song I've ever heard

    The Firmon June 15, 2009   Link
  • +1
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    Live version from Family Values is the best version of the song btw...

    Truck101on September 09, 2010   Link
  • +1
    General Comment

    There's really nothing in the song about love. Check out the Music Video.

    A lot of moral fiber as "Monday" in song lyrics stating worst day of a unhappy families week. Going be the open spoken guy and say its one of these situations with parents, sometimes child feeling unloved or out of touch with family. Like the word "obey" appears as if parents have to be treated good on all exceptions but being said the song is about the child's standpoint.

    There's 2 videos for the Orgy version, the live one and the official Orgy music video. Before any suggestions to my comment please check the official music video and it has clear view on my idea.

    Beats "Kids in America" song for parenthood though XD

    V2Jon December 23, 2010   Link
  • 0
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    To me it's about a girlfriend who treat him like nothing and use him. He realise this and want to leave her, but it's hard ("And I still find it so hard to say what I need to say"). A great version of this song. The original is of New Order.

    Deadon May 09, 2002   Link

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