So, you know how people are
When it's all gone much too far
The way their minds are made
Still, there's something you should know
That I could not let show
That fear of letting go

And in this moment, I need to be needed
With this darkness all around me, I like to be liked
In this emptiness and fear, I want to be wanted
Cause I love to be loved
I love to be loved [Repeat x2]
Yes, I love to be loved

I cry the way that babies cry
The way they can't deny
The way they feel
Words, they climb all over you
'Til they uncover you
From where you hide

And in this moment, I need to be needed
When my self-esteem is sinking, I like to be liked
In this emptiness and fear,
I want to be wanted
Cause I love to be loved
I love to be loved [Repeat x2]
Oh I love to be loved

This old familiar craving
I've been here before, this way of behaving
Don't know who the hell I'm saving anymore
Let it pass let it go let it leave
From the deepest place I grieve
This time I believe

And I let go [Repeat x2]
I can let go of it
Though it takes all the strength in me
And all the world can see
I'm losing such a central part of me
I can let go of it
You know I mean it
You know that I mean it
I recognize how much I've lost
But I cannot face the cost
Cause I love to be loved

Yes I love to be loved
I love to be loved
[Repeat x3]

I love to be loved

I love to be loved
Yes I love to be loved


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Love to Be Loved Lyrics as written by Peter Gabriel

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    I love this song. To me, this song is about something I can really relate to - the need for approval. That;s what the "addiction" really is. It's about needing to get a "fix" of approval from other people and though you know it's not healthy and you shouldn't need it... you still want it anyway. That's why when your "self-esteem is sinking" you need to get a hit of approval or "love". That's what this "old familar craving" is - and I think Peter is saying that it starts when you're a baby and something that can be useful and healthy can eventually long outlive its usefulness when you are looking for it from people who can't give it and yet you somehow need it anyway.

    jpx2222on February 16, 2013   Link

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