When you refuse me
You confuse me
What makes you think I'll let you in again
Think again, my friend
Go on, misuse me and abuse me
I'll come out stronger in the end

And does it make you sad
To find yourself alone
And does it make you mad
To find that I have grown
I'll bet it hurts so bad
To see the strength that I have shown

When you answer the door, pick up the phone
You won't find me 'cause I'm not coming home

You do not know how much this hurts me
To say these things that I don't want to say
But I have to say them anyway
I would do anything to end your suffering
But you would rather walk away

And does it make you sad
To find yourself alone
And does it make you mad
To find that I have grown
I'll bet it hurts so bad
To see the strength that I have shown

When you answer the door, pick up the phone
You won't find me 'cause I'm not coming home

And does it make you sad
To find yourself alone
And does it make you mad
To find that I have grown

Does it make you sad
To find yourself alone
Does it make you mad
To see that I have grown
Bet it hurts so bad
To see the strength that I have shown

When you answer the door, pick up the phone
You won't find me 'cause I'm not coming home

When you answer the door, pick up the phone
You won't find me 'cause I'm not coming home

When you answer the door, pick up the phone
You won't find me 'cause I'm not coming home


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Not Coming Home Lyrics as written by James Valentine Adam Levine

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    Every song on the CD is great...

    GhettoSlothon April 16, 2005   Link

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