When I reach out, you move away from my hands
You're never telling me why
We make time to spend
Time you forget and the days are just passing us by

When I ask you, you never understand it
You don't know what you haven't done
And when I try to explain, it sounds like complaint
And the words only make you more numb

Is there a fire you don't see the smoke?
We can't get higher if you don't let it go

How did your heart ever get like that?
How did someone ever hurt so bad?
That you can't see it
You've been kicked inside
You're desensitized
How did you heart ever get so cold
How did someone ever get so close
They you just don't know
How if feels inside
You're desensitized

I want to believe that it's a phase you go through
That only gets harder to tell
And sometimes I think, it's an easier thing to believe
That there's someone else

Is there a fire you don't see the smoke?
We can't get higher if you don't let it go

[Chorus: x2]
Whatever they did
Whatever they said
You know it's much better just to run and forget
Whatever it was
Whoever's to blame
You know you can let your self feeling again


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Desensitized Lyrics as written by Vince Leigh James Leigh

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    this would sound so good on an acoustic guitar

    not youon April 14, 2007   Link

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