? (The Gay Bar Song) Lyrics

the line "i can't deal with what i think you are" has always bothered me. i've always been kind of afraid that it might be a little homophobic. i'd love to know if that's what he means, or if it's something else.

This song is so strange. At first I thought it was funny, but after hearing it a few times, I realize it's actually a serious song. It's written very well (not sure if Art wrote it or if it's a cover) and the music is great. it's very catchy. I don't think that "i can't deal with what i think you are" is really homophobic, just, well think about how you would feel if you found out that the person you love is sleeping around with other women. (I'm sure there are some who would be happy if they found out that,) Really, it's the sam eas if it were emn she was with. Of course that's just my two cents.

Yeah, I agree with the comment below mine (which was posted over 10 years ago lol) but after a few listens you realize that it is the perspective from pretty deeply hurt man realizing the person he loves is cheating on him in a way he could have never seem coming.