| Grimes – Oblivion Lyrics | 1 year ago |
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@[PhdCoder:50363] shut up. it doesn’t scream dominate me. It doesn’t scream submissive girl who wants a dom. Your mentality with this is the mindset and views of a rapist. I would know. I was raped. I wasn’t looking for someone to touch my chest and force me down and hold me there on my hands and knees on their cold floor until they (my best friend/lover now ex) were done. “I never walk about, after dark, its my point of view, someone could break your neck, coming up behind you, and you’d never have a clue.” She’s not wanting someone to “take control unexpectedly”. No one wants to be beaten, to be used. She doesn’t like walking after dark because people could hurt her, and in your words “take control unexpectedly”. How did you possibly ever get the idea that if someone doesn’t like walking in the dark cause they could get raped, when they do because they have to, THEY’RE NOT LUSTING FOR A DOM THEY’RE TRYING TO GET HOME or whatever location is their destination. “And now they look behind, all the time, I will wait forever, always looking straight, thinking, counting, all the hours you wait” the use of ‘they’ isn’t for multiple people. It’s like saying “who are they?” Instead of “who is he?”. They here is just a non-gender specific pronoun of the person. Even if it was more than one person, the victim waiting isn’t “eagerly accepting their arrival”. She’s disassociating, focusing all her mind on something else, anything but what they’re doing to her, and she’ll focus on something else and wait for it to be done for as long as it takes. I did this. When i was on my hands and knees, pinned to the ground by my so (now ex) i could do nothing. I just kept doing the task i was doing before, desperately trying to not accept and notice what my partner was doing to me. “See you on a dark night”. What does this even have o do with “longing for encounters with a dominant partner during nightime?” Huh? She’s saying I see you on a dark night, aka it was nighttime. How is saying it was nighttime make it romantic? Murders happen at night. Grocery shopping happens at night. I dont see the train of thought at all. Sure, people often have sex with their s/o at night. But people do a ton of other things at night. That’s like saying because we have lunch at noon everything that happened around noon is food-related. next, how does it being nighttime reinforce intimate desire? This is totally nonsensical “And now another clue, I would ask, if you could help me out, its hard to understand, cause when you’re really by yourself, its hard to find someone to hold your hand.” This is not “a submissive plea for guidance and support from a dominant figure, that can take charge and provide comfort”. It’s isolation. My ex isolated me from my friends and family. I was truly alone during those times, or at least that’s what my now ex-lover told me. When i was on the floor, i was all alone with my s/o. I was also constantly asking my partner for ways i could improve our relationship, as i did all the work. “And now its gonna be, tough on me, but i will wait forever, i need someone now to look into my eves and tell me girl you know you gotta watch your health” my hygiene would drop after each rape i underwent (yes i was raped my multiple people, many times, all when i was a child), and i would hurt myself and not wash my hair to make me be “less attractive” because i thought in my head then it wouldn’t t happen. This is untrue, but i did really need someone to remind me to take care of myself. The i know its gonna be tough on me but i will wait forever is the long few months of that relationship i endured before i switched schools. My s/o was stronger than me, and if i left the relationship while i was at the same school as them i would be at their mercy, as they could easily beat me up. Once i left though, that major danger was gone and i could leave safely, with the path of least resistance, getting me out with minimal physical wounds. My goal was survival. That’s what i did. I was raped three times, first in elementary school, then when i was 11, and then when i was twelve. I hate you for the reason of you are a victim blamer. I dont know what you’ll respond it you respond to this, but change your fucking mindset, and get therapy because you are probably a rapist as most of the ‘points’ you made are excuses and justifications rapists make for their crimes. To the survivors out there, we are strong. We aren’t victims. It’s not wrong place wrong time. We’re leaders, survivors, fighters. We are enough. I support u ❤️ |
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