| The Smiths – How Soon Is Now? Lyrics | 12 years ago |
| Heard a Smiths song on a film and downloaded all the tracks I had on cassette when I was younger. I really love this song. Nothing wrong with shyness - I find shy people far more attractive than extroverts, do you not too if you think about it. There's mystery and intrigue about a person who holds themselves back and doesn't ' show' themselves immediately, you wonder what they think and feel. I am in my 40s now and have spent my life cringing at my shyness and fear of social situations, and having a drink was the only way I could feel less self conscious. I am married with children now and I look back wistfully and regret how I looked on shyness as a terrible thing - If I'd embraced it as the attractive trait I now regard it as, my life could have been so different. Why not look online on dating and friendship sites and seek out other people who too are shy - as the other reply from Chardsie says, you're not alone - there are others, so find them, we all have something to offer. X | |
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