| 30 Seconds to Mars – The Kill Lyrics | 15 years ago |
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pretty much. except that there is deep conflicting feelings going on. "all i wanted was you" (but he didn't frickin realize it before the breakup or imminent breakup). maybe he did try to change, but not into the person he wanted to be, but the person that he thought she wanted him to be - only to turn himself into someone nobody wanted him to turn into. "I tried to be someone else But nothing seemed to change I know now this is who I really am inside Finally found myself Fighting for a chance I know now this is who I really am" he finally found himself and he's fighting for a chance. he knows what happened and that she loves him for who he was in the past and could be in the future, while she also hates him for what he has become in the present. in the line "what if i wanted to fight", 'fight' means 'fight to keep our relationship intact'. why else would he be begging? it's a song of conflict between what your head tells you is probably the better decision and what your heart tells you. from all my past experience - go with the heart. the head can confuse itself. the heart is a better judge of things and people. this song could have been written about my relationship with my (now estranged) wife. im the guy who f-d up and tried to mentally beat himself into submission and turn into 'the proper husband/dad image'. only problem was that neither of us liked that guy and the strain not to be myself was damn-near unbearable, causing me to lash out verbally and just be an a-hole in general. i'm trying so hard to fix things now that i realize what happened and just what a special person she is and how hard she fought for years to keep us together. |
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| Train – Hey, Soul Sister Lyrics | 15 years ago |
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NOT. Neural imprinting. Its a term that often refers to the changes that occur in both an infant's and its mother's brain that allow one to tell the other by sight, taste, smell, etc... This same phenominon occurrs with 'first loves' and is strongest when it occurrs between the ages of 15 and 17 and there is physical intimacy and the relationship lasts for at least 3 months past initial physical intimacy. The 'imprinting' can be as strong or stronger than between mother and child. It will literally cause a person to compare all their future relationships and lovers to their 'first love'. Psychologist Linda Waud is known for her work in this field. Lipstick stains on the front lobe of left side brains makes total sense if you know the above. His thoughts and future relationships will always be influenced by her. Trust me. Finally figured out why the last 15 years have been impossibly painful and no woman (no matter how wonderful), and no amount of drugs/alcohol can fill the void in my heart and soul. At least, I am now aware that I will never be able to fill the void, and can stop trying. Neural imprinting, not a common sexual reference. Yes, it IS all about sex, but not in the way you suggested. |
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| Train – Hey, Soul Sister Lyrics | 15 years ago |
| Or maybe she WAS a virgin when they met and will always have an 'innocent' quality about her, at least in his mind. | |
| Semisonic – Closing Time Lyrics | 15 years ago |
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yeah. can't get her out of my mind. it was bad before i bumped into her. it's like i've known a piece of me has been missing for years, and i finally figured out what it was and was trying to deal with that; then for a brief moment, feeling whole again. i am so torn. i havent contacted her yet over the ethical ramifications of interfering with someone else's relationship. however, i think that there are only two possibilities: 1) she doesn't feel the same way, and i get to feel like a fool for a while, but in the end, i will know that i tried. or 2) she is having similar feelings to some degree. this could easily destroy her current relationship. BUT, if it could destroy her current relationship, then that relationship wasn't meant to be and we are supposed to be together again. IDK |
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| Semisonic – Closing Time Lyrics | 15 years ago |
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After meeting up with my first (and one true) love recently at a bar, totally unexpectedly, this song has a new meaning for me. I bumped into her a few years back, but it was very brief and my (at the time) wife was with me, so it was a quick 'how have you been?'. This time, we were both there to watch a band that we both really like and hung out for a couple of hours having fun and singing along to all the songs. It was obvious that we were both enjoying each other's company a lot. But, she is in a relationship, so we kept things totally platonic. I have to admit that I was a little upset when the bar closed and I knew the evening was over. Mainly because "I know who I want to take me home", but I knew it wasn't going to happen. Haven't slept too well since. Worst part is that I had just come to the realization that all my other relationships had failed because I was still in love with her. I even told that to a friend 2 days before that chance encounter. Every new beginning comes from some other beginnings end. Last line in the song. Her new beginning (unfortunately the most likely) or maybe if God is merciful, she is going through something similar and our new beginning can come as a result of her current relationships end (unlikely, but one can always hope) |
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| Train – Hey, Soul Sister Lyrics | 16 years ago |
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exactly. the one that empowers you to be the 'you' that you envision yourself to be. the one that laughs honestly at your corny jokes. the one who sends all of your mental 'guages' to overload. |
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| Lady GaGa – Paparazzi Lyrics | 16 years ago |
| or maybe, it's about a 'normal' person that's beginning a relationship with someone that is 'known'. for the life of me, i can't figure out what she sees in me. she could pick from any man on this planet and she is interested in me. i'm definately her biggest fan & unless she requests otherwise, i will follow her until she loves me. (i feeel like) papa-paparazzi. | |
| Jason Mraz – I'm Yours Lyrics | 16 years ago |
| im definately 'hers' for the taking. no hidden crap in this song or in my heart. | |
| James Blunt – You're Beautiful Lyrics | 16 years ago |
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or... maybe we can. i met her almost 4 years ago. she was 'with' another man. i was married. jump to the present. she's NOT with another man. i'm not married. after a 2 second chance encounter followed up by a 40 minute conversation, i'm falling madly in love. i talk to her at least twice each day and feel like it's been a year between every conversation. each minute apart feels like a year because i (think that i) know where our relationship will end - when one of us dies of old age. |
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| Train – Hey, Soul Sister Lyrics | 16 years ago |
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"your lipstick stains on the front lobe of my left-side brains." she's going for her master's degree in psychology and she has won regional and international modeling competitions. her lipstick stains have definately left a perminant mark on the front lobe of my left-side brains. i have trouble if i try to breathe and not think about her. of course, i also have trouble trying to breathe in her presence. |
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| The Stone Roses – She Bangs The Drums Lyrics | 16 years ago |
| & omg, does she do this to me... i just think about her while at work or at the mall, etc... and i d@mn-near fall to my knees. 'she bangs the drums' d@mn hard, and i can't help falling in line. | |
| Pink – Sober Lyrics | 16 years ago |
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i don't think it's about drinking/drugs at all. more intense than drugs is the 'addiction' you feel during the beginning of an intense relationship. a intense relationship can make you feel like you're 'spinning round'. likewise, the bridge of the song: "When it's good, then it's good, it's so good till it goes bad Till you're trying to find the you that you once had I have heard myself cry, never again Broken down in agony just tryna find a fit" seems to fit a relationship more than anything else - you can lose yourself in a relationship, not seeing old friends, family wondering when you will ever call, stop doing things that you enjoy, etc... afterward, you're "trying to find the you that you once had". just my take on the song. even at face value, pink is miles ahead of her 'competition' in the 'pop' genre - dealing with difficult subject matter. but usually her songs are deeper, having layers of meanings. |
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| The Stone Roses – She Bangs The Drums Lyrics | 16 years ago |
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to me, it's a conversation with an ex. it starts off with: Kiss me where the sun don't shine The past was yours But the future's mine You're all out of time and ends up trying to describe what it feels like to be in a relationship with someone who just absolutely 'gets' you (soulmate - maybe). someone who just turns your head and internal organs into mush and you can literally feel your heart pounding in your chest when you see her or talk to her on the phone. but that's just my take on it. |
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