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Rilo Kiley – A Better Son/Daughter Lyrics 16 years ago
I feel like I could have written this song, if I had her writing talents. Never before have I found a more fitting song to the way my life was.

"Sometimes in the morning I am petrified and can�t move
Awake but cannot open my eyes
And the weight is crushing down on my lungs
I know I can�t breathe
And I hope someone will help me this time" --- I felt exactly this way. I spent many days alone in my room because I literally couldn't convince myself to move and get out of bed and face the day

"And your mother�s still calling you insane and high
Swearing it�s different this time
And you tell her you give in to the demons that possess her
And that God never blessed her insides
Then you hang up the phone
And feel badly for upsetting things" --- in this case, it wasnt my mother, but i very good friend. They kept telling me I was too crazy when I drank and then I would feel hurt and say something mean.

"Crawl back into bed to dream of a time
When your heart was open wide
And you loved things just because
Like the sick and the dying" --- this is the part that gets me the hardest. I remember when I was so happy when I was younger. I would say to people "happiness is a choice" and it was a choice I made. But I've become so bitter and apathetic and hateful all at the same time and I don't know why. It makes me terribly sad.

"And sometimes when you�re on
You�re really fucking on
And your friends they sing along
And they love you" --- this part, while very happy, makes me very sad. I never thought I was on. Or when I was it was fleeting. But I guess thats what she says. I'd be happy for a moment in time and forget depression and all the things in my life that made me sad.

"But the lows are so extreme
That the good seems fucking cheap
And it teases you for weeks in its absence" --- this part actually makes me smile, probably because of the sarcastic cynical person I've become. And because its so true. Good never seems good compared to the bad.

"But you�ll fight and you�ll make it through
You�ll fake it if you have to
And you�ll show up for work with a smile" --- these words give me strength

"And you�ll be better
And you�ll be smarter --- a better student
And more grown up --- more responsible
And a better daughter or son --- stop avoiding my family
And a real good friend --- I will stop bailing on friends or embarrassing them at parties
And you�ll be awake --- I won't stay in bed all day. I can get up and face my life.
You�ll be alert --- I will pay attention to the world around me and remember that there are worse things than what I face
You�ll be positive though it hurts --- I wont allow myself to sink down into the depths of my depression
And you�ll laugh and embrace all your friends --- and things will be happy and loving like they were when i was young

And you�ll be a real good listener --- I will work on my relationships with other people
You�ll be honest --- I will stop lying to myself
You�ll be brave --- I WILL ACCEPT MY RESPONSIBILITIES AND PUNISHMENTS
You�ll be handsome and you�ll be beautiful --- Things will be perfect
You�ll be happy --- I can be happy. I will be happy.

Your ship may be coming in
You�re weak but not giving in
To the cries and the wails of the valley below
And your ship may be coming in
You�re weak but not giving in
And you�ll fight it
You�ll go out fighting all of them


this song means so much to me, I could go on for pages. But I think this will suffice for what it is

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