I dont know what is going on with you.  You have berated me and put me down for years.  Now it is getting worse...you hurt me so much emotionally, you are starting to push boundaries physically.  You seem to be losing it, your behavior more and more erratic everyday.  Yes, I agree that a divorce is a good thing, but I dont think the fact that you trying to make me suffer, and with that the children suffer is right.  You need help.  You have turned into a dry drunk and you are runing your family.  You have trapped us and we are living a life of hell.  Why do you feel you are superior?  You are toxic, and before you judge me, make sure you are perfect.  I have tried to help you for years, but I have come to the conclusion that at I have done too much for you and its time to stop.  You treat me like the most vile creature on earth.  You know what I think?  I think there is something wrong with you and not me.  Normal people do not go around destroying the ones they claim to love.  You are controlling and manipulative.  You dont see yourself as the problem.  You see it as everyone else being the problem.  Stop living a life of deflection and step up and take responsibility for the things that you have done.