So it would seem that after 7 months that me and my love would know each other by now. But last Saturday we got into our first "real" fight. He was spending time with his ex, and when I confronted him about it he tried to tell me that it really wasnt that big of a deal. But i kept trying to just get him to tell me what they had be doing...alome. We are 11 years apart in age-wise but that shouldnt be an issue because we really do love each other, but he hit me. I thought about it, and maybe it would be good to have a break, but thing is I dont want to be without him. But im not about to stand there and let him hit me. The weird part is that he is very against hitting women. His father was abusive growing up. I love him, and im going to give him a second chance, but im still unsure of where our future is going to leading. Violence? or Love? ???