i find that whenever life sucks, absoluty sucks dir en grey or gazette get me through it. music is such a universal language and true i dont speak japanese, or even know more then a few phrases but the music is so pwerful that you dont need to understand exctly what is being said. especially with kyo's expression in dir en grey i feel so connected to the music and feel like this is where its at and i can listen to dir en grey and jsut feel like maybe i am not alone, and yea people feel pain, and then make kick ass songs about it im cheesy get over it !care!