as a guy... i hate it when girls think u need to know lito things about them that they dont say... like a hidden meaning or something. how are we supposed to know? and girls say boys are complicated. well i went on a camp thing with my church and my gf went as well, and i wasnt really supposed to be around her too much cuz it was a religious thing and she would make me loose focus. well she went to hang out with another boy the whole camp (3 days). i cant blame her since i wasnt with her or anything but y one boy? y that one? i didnt know him till that weekend but still. u said you were just talking with him but everyone else says that there was more. i didnt see anything because i thought it was ok and i trusted u so i didnt care. well anyway... she was pretty close to him while they were talking... her best friend mariah thought it could be because she thought i liked someone else. it could be true but its not, and i made no action to make her think that. some girls liked me... maybe thats y they told me all those things? it doesnt matter... she needs to know that the reason y i broke it off is cuz we have made way too much drama in the past month... too much for anyone to go thru in a year. and i dont do drama. so then she agrees with me that we should be apart for a while till things calmed down.. and we were both fine with it till like an hour later.. she gets all mad saying that i hurt her real bad and she wants me back. WAIT, HOLD UP! u just said u were fine with it... if u werent then u should have sed something then. so i appologize and we were ok after... but she said that the whole thing was pointless.. like if we're apart then we should be all like in a "mutual crush" stage, w/e that means. so then i agree with her after a while... and then she complains again that i hurt her and that she wants me back so bad and that i dont care for her. that pissed me off a bit so i told her i still do ( and i do) and she just totaly rejects me and bitches at me. then she says sorri and were all good... again... then she starts again saying that the reason y we broke up is cuz i liked all the girls at the retreat... so i guess mariah could have had the right assumption. so she tells me all these girls i like including her best friend mariah... not to sound like a girl but WTF! thats a lito dick if u ask me.. if u dont trust me then atleast trust ur best friend. maybe its me, maybe its her... but watever it is... its ruining my day and hurting my head a whole lot. Dont know what to do...?

ok, u might find this really weird but here it goes... i'm sortah in love with my best friend... yes it's a girl but isn't like best friends supposed to be off-limits? i've known her for 2 years, i liked her like the first 5 months and i asked her out atleast 4 times in the past. her mom recently just asked me if i thought it was weird for best friends to marry each other in the future, and i didn't know what to say. And then she told me all sorts of stuff like saying i might end up her son-in-law one day. it kinnah got me thinking... i've been in love with her like the first time i saw her. How we hang out is weird too, like ppl think tht we're dating by just seeing how we act with each other. its not more of that we're flirting, its that we share everything do everything and tell each other everything, that ppl get the wrong idea. my friends asked b4 if she would go out with me and she keeps saying "he's like my brother". i feel like she's my sister but i love her soo much. lol i don't know how to explain it... but is it weird or not? i used to think it was but look at the show "Friends"... i mean i know it's only a show but those things happen... let me know what u think.

If your reading this... help me out... my gf just broke up with me in like the worst way possible... thru a text. Yah well i want to move on but can't... i feel like if i date someone... i would always go back to my ex anytime, and i don't want that. Gimme advice if u got any...