• What would do if this happened to you...

    by BL33d1ngBl4ckR0s3s on April 14, 2007
    Let's tell you how you are and who you are first... You're this go happy, laughing, smiling, lovable, most-sot-after girl in the school... You have friends, some closer than others, most of the close ones are males... You have a b/f, he's smart and kind and sweet, when you are alone togeather, but once he's friends come around, you are completely ignored... Now, let's describe your closest guy-friend... He's likes the same music as you, metal, general rock, hard rock, heavy metal, rock in general... He's smart, especially in science, which is your worst class... He's someone you would trust and tell anything in the world to, your problems, your ups, your downs, your theory on the dragons, elves, ANYTHING IN THE WORLD... Now the situation... You and your closes guy-friend hang out one day... He talks and talks and talks about how nobody expect you have paid attention to him... He goes on about this one girl, though he doesn't say who, that he likes, and how she must not see that he likes her... He goes on and on, mentioning things like, "I know she could do so much better, and I know she's not happy where she is, He doesn't pay attention to her, he doesn't even show her any sign of existence..." and so on... You feel pity for him... You want to help him, but you don't know how... You reach out towards him, give him your hand and say something comforting, some like "Maybe she doesn't want to hurt the other person of the relationship she's in...Maybe she doesn't know that you like her, that you care about her..." and such other things a close friends might say... A few weeks later this same friend, he tells you to just go away and don't ever talk to him again, and you are so shocked, you don't know what you did, and the shock is enough to bring tears to your eyes... You get as far away from him as possible, though you want to find out what is wrong with him, you think it over so much that you finally write to him, seeing as he has banned you from talking to him... He's pissed off, but you still hand him the letter, then you quickly walk away, so he doesn't have a chance of giving a second thought to reading it... At lunch, you hear him and one of yours and his close girl friends... they are argueing about you, you can tell that, but there's more, something deeper, yet you know you were left out of this one conversation, though you usually know all that has happened between your friends... Later that day, while you and your b/f are going to class, he calls you over, just you... you know this because he doesn't like your b/f, though you don't really understand why... never ventured to ask... and when you go over to your guy-friend, he gives you a note, while quietly saying, so no one else hears, "think this over, Please..." he's almost pleading with you... In class you read over the note, you are shocked at its contents... You had always liked your guy-friend, but to find out that he feels the same way about you, that he thought that making you leave his circle, to never return, would help him, for he THINKS you wouldn't want him, that he's not good enough for you, that he thought he could have been, before "HE", referring to your b/f, showed up and poked his head into matters, and you so blindly followed into "HIS" arms... and then you see that he thinks that you would never welcome him in your heart... that you don't care about him, that you never will... you want him to understand you, yet you are so mixed up inside, you don't know what to say... you think it over and as far as you know, nothing comes into your mind than confusion... you are confused... You go home, think it over, and evaluate all the possible out comes: --Talk to your guy-friend, and remain "just friends"... --Talk to your guy-friend, and leave the friendship for good... --Talk to your b/f, and see what he says... --Talk to your b/f, explain your situation, and take a break... --Talk to your b/f, but leave things out, like the mutual feelings of you and your guy-friend... --Talk to your mom, see what she has to say... --Talk to your best friend, your best girl-friend, and how much she knew, and what she has to say... --Break up with your b/f, and go out with your guy-friend... --Break up with you b/f, and remain single until you're sure of what to do next... --Take a really long break and then decide who is more important to you... --or Do nothing and keep living as you had before... Now, You must chose your answer, and tell me it... Your answer can be a mixture of two or more choices...
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