So there's always this girl who likes this guy who is her friend and they connect, but the guy never sees what she sees...untill its too late. meaning either he hurt her or she moved on or both. Thats my story. Thats why I like sof moving pop-sounding music as well as emo bands. My Chemical Romance, any band on the warped tour now, Ryan Cabrera, Howie Day, Ben Jelen, Simple Plan, Good Charlotte... And shows as well. For example I identify with the girls in shows who fit the description above. I'm Chloe Sullivan in SMALLVILLE or Jude Harrison in INSTANT STAR. Chloe loves Clark, her best friend but he can't see it or care because he's hopelessly in love with Lana who I see as the obstacle, therefore I hate her. If the actress is in another movie as the obstacle or just with a celebrity I like, then I hate her even more. In Instant Star Jude's the girl in love. The dumb friend is Tommy, her producer, and the obstacle is her sister, Sadie. The obstacle is generally a friend. I don't see them as a friend to the girl in the show, but that's 'cause I'm a third party just watching the show. In my life the 2 situatuions I have been in like that: the obstacle was a friend. First Kate then someone I prefer not to name, And I can feel all those emotions and i identify with the person singing. Like rage hurt fear. Slit wrists... like in MCR's Cementery Drive. So that's me.