Hello (warning: ramble/ rant)
- September 08, 2014
- alterEgo
- 4 Comments
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Some relationships simply have a time and a place. Yes, he may have been your first kiss, the first person to whisper that he loved you, the first person you slept with - and these were beautiful things. And he was quite possibly the proper person for these things. Maybe he knew how to gently bring you out of your shell or make you smile when you felt sad.
But sometimes, the connection fades away because things get hard. People change and life doesn't stop for anybody. Appreciate it for what it was. Of course it will hurt that maybe he won't always have that twinkle in his eye for you, but there's a big world out there. You're twenty-two. There are so many boys to kiss, so many people to meet, so many things to do. You clearly have a heart full of compassion and someone with that sort of innate kindness deserves to be loved back completely. You can do it. You'll be okay.
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You have such a wonderful way of expressing yourself. It's not always easy but feelings are beautiful in all shapes and forms.
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I may not know you, I may not know what you are going through, but for years I've come to this website for solace and for comfort and safety, so if you ever want anyone to talk to you are more than welcome to message me
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ew the voice inside my head is annoying as fuck
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I want to say so much, but when it actually comes to typing I am stuck. Funny that. I will try to type like a reasonable person.
So some backstory on my life at the moment. 22, unemployed for 9 months, in a long distance relationship of almost 2 years.
I've been on the website for more than 4 years now, it's nice to see some familar faces also new friendly ones. I would hope this website becomes more chatty, but then again I'm not one to chat, as I'm afraid of what people think of me, and if someone's starts hating on my comment, it makes me really upset. I guess it's a fear, though no one has really done that to me. Can't explain it, Anxiety? Maybe?.
This year i want to be more happier, happier with myself, happier that I lost 11 kgs and never patted myself for it. Still see myself as how i think others see me, judging every imperfection on my skin, and calling myself ugly, (because i am covered in hedious scab scars). when i should be saying not perfect.
Ramble ramble. At the point in time, i'm ok, but thinking things over. The reasons why my boyfriend and I don't get along is because of my personal clingy issues, and his lack of effort towards communicating with me. I'm thinking of moving to where he lives in Melbourne, but I don't know if that would be a good idea. Pros would be I get to see him often, stablising our relationship, it's a nice place to live, a fresh start, away from family life which sometimes depresses me. Cons are, that I will be lonely, I have no source of income besides benefits, living in melbourne is expensive, especially by yourself and you know no one.
Only reason I want to go there is for him, but I am so close to my family I will be heartbroken if I move, plus my mum is not healthy (2nd stroke) so who know when that will happen again, and I'm afraid she'll become worse than how she is right now. I have a fear that I will lose my parents, and regret not spending time with them. So many fears, fearing things I should not be scared of.
The things between us (me and him) make me second guess our relationship. He doesn't want to see me, even if i offer up to come see him this month. Flights are about $100 more or less. He is working as well which makes it hard for me to see him because sometimes he will work night shift or dayshift, and which ever day they will call him, and he works of a monthly roster, that he hasn't shared with me. It's just so difficult, he doesn't want to talk everyday whereas i do, i haven't heard his voice in 3days. and he doesn't care to talk, because hearing me, knowing i exist breaks his heart because i am not actually with him. I asked several friends and they said there was nothing much left, but i still believe that is something there for us. I still love him.
I also said that he bragged, and he told me that I nag too much, and make noises when i want attention. ooh that hurt, because i now think it's true. I am just a big attention seeker, loathe myself :(
this sounds like one of those relationships that should just end, but it's very hard. as he is my first. first boyfriend, first kiss, first time having sex. it seems like a lot to throw away. I feel pretty stupid, but I am those things to him too. we would be throwing away our relationship if we gave up. anyone wanting to try a ldr should be aware of how hard it is, there is a chance that one person would want to give in, because the distance is too much.
I am comfortable with the way things are, seeing each other every three months, for three days is ok for me, as long as I get to talk to him everyday. But he is not ok with it, because he needs me to actually be there, and to hug him and hold him, and to do stuff together. I would really love that too. He is very sad right now, and distancing himself from me. Kinda hurts. I feel much better writing this all down.
Im making him a care package, dont know when to send it, because he is not being nice to me right now, but i still care about him, and want to cheer him up.
I hope you all have a nice night.