What should I do?
- May 13, 2014
- DorkasaurusRex
- 3 Comments
3 Comments
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You've been there done that. You have developed an attachment which is completely normal, you are human. Ditch him, don't rewind that tape, give the 'newer' guy a shot. As hard as it may seem, that last guy made the decision himself. He made the decision, not you. Don't let that back in. It will only lead to an emotional shit storm, trust me.
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If you trust him and he's not an asshole, and you genuinely still want to be with him, then go for it.
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an important question to ask is what were his motivations for talking to his ex in the first place & continuing to talk to her, & that it went that far that he allowed her to cause crap/hard feelings between you two?
honestly he sounded pretty flaky to me, at least from what you have said. Not sure how bad the fights were, that is if there were even bad fights/arguments.
he shouldn'tve been talking to his ex. & by doing that he allowed her scheming efforts to start whatever stuff it was between you guys. it's one thing for him to realize that mistake & tell her to hit the road, seeing what she was doing, it's another to be weak <-- at least thats what it seemed like to me at that time & say that he can't take the drama any more. like, wow! if he wanted you, he would've been willing to work. to do the work & fight for it because he wanted you. & he should have, again, told her to get lost bc he should have chose you over her instead of still talking to her & allowing it to get out of hand & just give up, flustered or whatever. so basically it's one thing for him to realize his mistake of letting this chick back in his life & he should not have let that come between you two, plain & simple.
he had his chance & shoudn'tve allowed that to happen & give up. however, if he realized his mistake & is actually really sorry, & has a good explanation & his motivations were actually pure, & you believe him & are comfortable with that & trust him, try it.
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Okay, so there is this guy that i have been dating for 10 months and he just recently started talking to his ex-girlfriend again. Well she tried starting stuff between us and it broke us up because he couldn't stand the drama. But during that time we seperated i was talking to this other guy, knowing it would'nt be anything serious, just talking and now the guy i was dating wants me back. Everybody that knows him says i shouldnt go back to him but i need some advice from people that dont know him. i just dont know...... HELP....... PLEASE?