Dear Jessica: I really hate how you are so pessimistic about everything. How you can "hate" someone and then say you like that person. I hate how you get upset over the most trivial of matters when it happens again, you dont care. I dont like how you are unfaithful to people. I dont like how you have no spiritual substance. I dont like how you point out, directly, matters of which are unimportant. I like you for your mind, but it is far too stubborn; I can't see you as anything other than a conservative in your thoughts. You are what you hate, even if you think, yet say, otherwise.