Linds: dont give up just because one person (repeatidly) knocks you down. it shows what kind of person they are, and by treating their daughter like that, when she shows signs of maturity amoung other things, it shows how low and selfish that person is. you love her. you can't deny that. when she was in the hospital you cried because you didnt know if she was gonna make it. that shows compassion. do not ever let anybody treat you the way she does. you deserve better. you know you deserve better. dont let one bitch take everything away from you. Tay: heres the thing. i love you. i love tj. but not the 2 of you together. you can do better. and i know that thats harsh, especially after what you about me, but thats the honest truth. when you guys are together, you become a totally different person. one that I dont know. and i've known u for 8 years. and when you guys are together, aroudn other ppl, something changes in both of you. you become more quiet and reserved. not the spontaneous bubbly taylor i know. and he becomes more, idk, physical i guess, and you dont deserve to be treated like that. idc if you love him or if he loves you. the bottom line is you are both hurting. you are both hurting each other. you are both hurting yourselves. and that is just not right. you have never been more upset then from what he causes you to feel. and i KNOW you love him. and i KNOW he makes you happy. but sometimes thats not everything. being HEALTHY (emotionally) is just as important. and neither of you are emotionally healthy for the other. if you keep staying because he threatens his life, THAT IS NOT RIGHT! and idk how many times i need to say that. i dont want you to be unhappy. i dont want him to be unhappy. as i said i love both of you. but i think that you would both be better off seperate. i dont want either of you to be hurting. i feel horrible for wat he has to go through, i really do. but you have problems of your own to deal with, you dont need his to deal with also. i know this has to be hard to hear. but i cant stand seeing anyone of you hurting like this. its just not right.