My friend...is being so irritating. She likes this guy, and he parks next to me in the parking lot. So she comes to hang out on my car and stare at him in the morning and in the afternoon, AND stares at him in the hallways, but WILL NOT talk to him! Like, not even hi. And every day, she's like, "Oh, today I'll talk to him." But she never has! And it's just so frustrating. He knows she likes him, because mutual friends have told him so, but she still won't even say hi! And I'm like, look, he's going to think you are a creepy stalker, ok? But still. Nothing. It's so frustrating. But like, that guy I'm trying to get over, that's exactly what I did. He knew who I was, and I knew who he was, and we both thought the other was attractive and both knew it. So when I saw him at a concert (we kinda both went to meet each other) I just walked up and was like, "Hi," and from there we had a nice conversation. That's how to do it, right? But she doesn't seem to realize that/refuses to put herself out there. I think that's the problem. She's afraid of rejection. But you're never going to get anywhere if you act like that, you know? It's not like he's going to be repulsed at her trying to talk to him - she's a good-looking girl and any guy would be lucky to talk to her. I tell her to keep that in mind but...ugh. Very frustrating, as you can see/read.