You found me lost
Loved me like a desert rain
I tried, I fought
But I just don't feel the same
I feel possessed
I speak but can't express
I lay in bed
Replaying life we once lived

Dime dónde voy
Dime dónde fui
I'm going back and forth
Like branches in the breeze
Dime dónde voy
Dime dónde fui
I don't know how to tell you
Tell you

I feel like I'm the outside looking in
When I'm with him
I don't know how to love now, I pretend
When I'm with him

He wanted more than I could ever be
I'm falling back
And you can't even see me
I feel possessed
I can't help but repress
All of the signs
Telling me I'm not fine

Dime dónde voy
Dime dónde fui
I'm driving myself crazy sitting silently
Dime dónde voy
Dime dónde fui
I don't know how to tell you
Tell you

I feel like I'm the outside looking in
When I'm with him
I don't know how to love now, I pretend
When I'm with him

I'm playing a part
It's getting too hard
Awake in the dark
It's too late to tell you
Tell you

I feel like I'm the outside looking in
When I'm with him
I don't know how to love now, I pretend
When I'm with him


Lyrics submitted by Coow

When I'm With Him Lyrics as written by James Stack Daniel Leonard Nigro

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    Originally a poem by Sharon Olds. Reads as:

    "I wonder now only when it will happen, when the young mother will hear the noise like somebody's pressure cooker down the block, going off. She'll go out on the yard, holding her small daughter in her arms, and there, above the end of the street, in the air above the line of the tress, she will see it rising, lifting up over the horizon, the upper rim of the gold ball, large as a giant planet starting to lift up over ours. She will stand there in the yard holding her daughter, looking at it rise and grow and blossom and rise, and the child will open her arms to it, it will look so beautiful."

    I imagine that's what is being read at the end of the song.

    Coowon February 14, 2010   Link

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