In regards to the meaning of this song:
Before a live performance on the EP Five Stories Falling, Geoff states “It’s about the last time I went to visit my grandmother in Columbus, and I saw that she was dying and it was the last time I was going to see her. It is about realizing how young you are, but how quickly you can go.”
That’s the thing about Geoff and his sublime poetry, you think it’s about one thing, but really it’s about something entirely different. But the lyrics are still universal and omnipresent, ubiquitous, even. So relatable. That’s one thing I love about this band. I also love their live performances, raw energy and Geoff’s beautiful, imperfectly perfect vocals. His voice soothes my aching soul.
No one will answer your prayers
Until you take off that dress
No one will hear all your crying
Until you take your last breath
But you will learn to mind me
And you will learn to survive me
No one will answer your prayers
Until you take off that dress
No one will hear all your crying
Until you take your last breath
But you will learn to mind me
And you will learn to survive me
Your father before you and your sister, too
Your husband, blah-blah-blah-blah, you
Until you take off that dress
No one will hear all your crying
Until you take your last breath
But you will learn to mind me
And you will learn to survive me
No one will answer your prayers
Until you take off that dress
No one will hear all your crying
Until you take your last breath
But you will learn to mind me
And you will learn to survive me
Your father before you and your sister, too
Your husband, blah-blah-blah-blah, you
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This is one of my favorite songs. https://fnfgo.io
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I think the "me" in this song represents the world.
"No one will answer your prayers until you take off that dress" - no one will do anything for you and you won't get anywhere if you're aiming for showbiz or the music biz unless you exploit yourself sexually. Okay, that's an exaggeration, but in many ways it can be true.
"No one will hear all your crying until you take your last breath" - it seems like too many people go uncared for and ignored until they die.
So yeah, it's a simple song and nothing that's never been said before, but I love it anyways.
agreed! i like that the world is being personified this way through just the word "me"
Hmm.. I think it's not about all the stuff you 're talking about. I think he talks about diversity, about being different. In particular he talks about being gay, trans or queer and all the infighting is caused from this. "No one will answer your prayers until you take off that dress" -> "You are admissible and acceptable only if you follow our rules, if you stop being yourself" in other words
For me he is obviously talking to himself in this song. So when he is saying "But you will learn to mind me, And you will learn to survive me", for me he just tries to convice himself he's not wrong, bad and sinful as they want him to believe. And he is trying to reasure himself that sometime he will accept and will manage to coexist with himself in peace.
@MrEternaLKid <br /> I'm late to the party on this song but I love it. And agree with this sentiment. Seems autobiographical, almost as if a lot of the words are maybe an unaccepting parent scolding him for being different, gay, drag or whatever. That he's learning the hard way. Sad but beautiful.
I think it's just about life in general. Sometimes, nobody really cares about you unless you do something to get their attention. You only get what you want if you allow yourself to be exploited. Likewise, one could imagine how a depressed individual is entirely without help but is mourned heavily by a community which did nothing for them.
And this sucks. People living uncared for, not getting sympathy or doing what they want. But, like the song says, you're just going to live with it. You might be crying now, but then you'll get some water and take a few breaths and you'll just keep doing the same things you've always done.
'Me', in this interpretation, is a sort of general avatar of society. You just learn to accept that nobody really cares and keep on living, since we're programmed genetically to keep going until we die despite even destructive metaphysical angst. After all, everyone else (father, sister, husband) are still alive and going, even if they're all miserable too. Just suck it up.
Im pretty sure this song is about abuse sexual or other wise. and about the pain that comes along with it and the cycle of abuse. "your father before you and your sister too" not about taking off your dress off to get into show business. this song is incredibly touching and the topic is not sung in songs often enough. what a beautiful release.
I get the same vibe for sure - father was abused and continues the cycle - reminds me a lot of Amy in the White Coat actually, if you've heard that bright eyes song - but cut down to the bear essentials.
Pretty much all of his first two albums are very autobiographical and he is possibly the least masculine male on the planet, so it is quite likely that this is all quite literal. These are things he and all LGBT people have heard thousands of times in their lives, and my own personal experience makes this song hit very hard for me. Its very comforting to know I share this kind of experience with someone, though I still cry when I hear it.
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Is he commenting on trans women who the church won’t accept until they repent of their identity and take off that dress?