I've been waiting all night long
I've been waiting to sing your song
Tonight, will you help me
Just help me find your key?
I run my hands down your neck
Across your back to another fret
I know you're fragile
You're bound to self-destruct

And I can see right through your skin
Your bones are hollow, they're paper-thin
Tonight, you're weightless
I know the way you feel

So try, try lifting all your weight
For a man, a man gone wrong.
And try, try wasting all your days
On a man, a man like me.

And my love is a lot like yours
It's been crippled by the wars we wage
We're hopeless
We're on the losing side
You never speak when we're making love
You never mean it when you come to me
With your arms stretched
Defenseless and alone

So try, try lifting all your weight
For a man, a man gone wrong.
And try, try wasting all your days
On a man, a man like me.

I taste you on my fingers
And I smell you on my lips
I don't know where you're going
But you're going to slip
Hey, honey, better save yourself
You're never gonna make it
Hey, honey, honey, better save yourself
You're never gonna make it.

So try, try lifting all your weight
For a man, a man gone wrong.
And try, try wasting all your days
On a man, a man like me.


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    "I run my hands down your neck Across your back to another fret "

    Well, frets are on guitars, so either he is singing to a guitar or he is simply describing how he wrote a song for a woman he loves and now he is performing it for her.

    "And my love is a lot like yours It's been crippled by the wars we wage We're hopeless We're on the losing side "

    Basically, the relationship he has with this woman is very fragile. They have fought so much that it has weakened or "crippled" their love for each other.

    "You never speak when we're making love You never mean it when you come to me With your arms stretched "

    Basically he doesn't feel like the woman is being honest with him. He doesn't think she really loves him.

    As a sidenote, I don't think he is trying to tell his girlfriend that she has an elongated spherical shape. The words are not, therefore, "Defenseless and oblong", but "Defenseless and alone".

    My favorite part is when he says "I taste you on my fingers And I smell you on my lips"

    Also, soundgoround, it's not emo, so please don't get too excited.

    Fionar2001on January 23, 2005   Link

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